ok im kind of confused with the whole ss nlp thing

1st ?

how exaclty do patterns work ? is it the words used or is there a change of tonality in the voice when saying like does your voice go louder or slower on certain words you want to put into the subconscious ?

2nd nlp and ss are they the same thing ? would learning one of them be learning both ?

1)
The patterns are examples of what kind of communication you would use to elicit a state in the person's mind. Eventually you'll create your own patterns and not rely only on canned patterns. You must say them with the right tonality, slowly and with pauses. Ross teaches the right tonality in his programs.

2)
NLP (from wikipedia): Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is a controversial approach to psychotherapy and organizational change based on "a model of interpersonal communication chiefly concerned with the relationship between successful patterns of behaviour and the subjective experiences (esp. patterns of thought) underlying them" and "a system of alternative therapy based on this which seeks to educate people in self-awareness and effective communication, and to change their patterns of mental and emotional behaviour".

SS: Is a school of seduction created by Ross Jeffries that uses NLP to elicit the right states in the women's minds and thus making them like you and have sex with you. He also uses NLP to fix the students' inner game.
You're basically using hypnotic language to implant suggestions in their minds. If they find their own reasons to follow your suggestions you successfully seduced them.

There are 2 paths: The slow and complete way and the quick and dirty way.

Quick and dirty: Get Ross Jeffries programs, study them, and go practice them in the field and you'll have results with women.

Slow and complete: Learn NLP first by Richard Bandler's books and other sources, become a certified NLP practitioner, then study Ross Jeffries stuff to see how it's applied to seduction and go infield to practice and get results too, but this you'll know better what you're doing.

PS: Learning only NLP is worth too. NLP is not made for seduction only.

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'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

thanks dude i have a look into it

While I too recommend doing some NLP training, be very careful of which practitioner course you do. Since there is no official regulation, complete schmucks can (and do) offer weekend courses for a small fortune but offering little in return. if you want to go down the NLP route I would suggest that you shop around for some courses. Be careful to not go into one as well with a 'class' size of 200+people.

I'll offer as an alternative to NLP training Hypnosis training, specifically Hypnotherapy training. I am finishing up my year at an institute in London (exam in June) and it has helped immensely with not only tonality and structure, but specifically anchoring my body, changing the flows of energy and has been a wonderful experience all round. Highly recommended, but it is contingent on the advice above, thoroughly investigate the course before you pay your money.

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thanks for the advice bud