Hi, I am a freshman in college and I think one of the least attractive girls in one of the sororities has a crush on me. This is a problem, because even though she isn't very attractive, her sorority has other girls who are. So, what can I do to make her LJBF me?

kinda interested in hearing answers to this...sticky situation. you want her to stop being attracted to you but at the samet ime keep her as your in to the rest of them...

hard one o_o

treat her like a friend maybe???

in these situations i always kill any type of sexual tension she may try to create but continue to be really friendly, they usually get the point after a while

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hmmm... upon reading the last two responses, I realize that I probably did not include enough information.

First of all, I met this girl at a mixer that my fraternity hosted. I don't want her to LJBF me so that I can get introductions to her sorority sisters, I've already met many of them. In fact, I've hooked up with several of them and had sex with one a week and a half ago. The majority of my current targets are members of this sorority.

The problem is that in addition to her acting like she likes me, her sisters have stopped responding to my advances, and recently they always seem to want to talk about her when they are interacting with me. It's like I have become off-limits for all the other members of this sorority. This is very frustrating for me, because as I said earlier, most of the girls I have been gaming belong to this sorority. The only solution that I can come up with is for her to get over her attraction for me and LJBF me.

Also, I am pretty far above average in physical attractiveness. (To give you an idea, one of my first lays when I got to college was at a costume tailgate party which I went to shirtless. A few minutes after arriving, a girl walked up to me said "you have a great body" and attached herself to me for the rest of the day.) This makes girls attracted to me much more easily than they are to most guys.

hey, don't do shit to get her to LJBF you.

you LJBF her.


why do guys act like they can't LJBF a girl?

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thats normally not a big deal, but in this situation if he does that he may hurt himself with all the other females she associates with, which he is obviously after.

I am going to say that it won't hurt your chances if you LJBF her. Women are good about fucking guys that are "off limits". Men have different rules, I don't believe you will hurt your chances. I would just straight up tell her, "Hey, I think you're a great girl, but I would love to be your friend, but not your boyfriend." Wait for her to cry, and once she spreads the news back to all her girlfriends you are open game to all of them.

O.K. I hadn't considered that LJBF'ing her might not hurt my chances with her friends that much.
Another question along those lines. If I LJBF her, am I likely to be viewed as a jerk/asshole by her and her friends? This is also important to consider because next year, I will be social chair for my fraternity, so it will be my responsibility to schedule events such as the mixer I met this girl at. Also, she is going to be the treasurer for her sorority. It will make my job more difficult if this girl and/or her friends do not like me.

Anyways, in either case, I think that I am going to use this as an opportunity to broaden my horizons and start trying to introduce myself to and close with more girls that don't belong to this specific sorority. This whole situation has made me realize how pathetic it is that such a large portion of the girls I focus on are part of just one group.

Consider this. If a girl told and AFC who was into her 'lets just be friends', would he think she was a douche? Would all of his friends refuse to talk to her? No. He'd bend over, take it and hang out with her on a 'friendsy' level, and nothing else would change.

Will it be any different if you LJBF the girl?

Usually I would say no; however, with this sorority, the answer is possibly yes. This happened to one of the juniors in my fraternity. He LJBF'ed one of the girls in this sorority, and now they all hate him. His situation is a little different than mine though. He LJBF'ed her after they had sex.