ok so when i was a rafc i met a girl, around a hb9, at work. we met a around a few times and i negged, being a rafc i negged her too much she snapped at me, and instead a) being alpha and telling her to settle down or b) negging her cause she lost it

i afcd and said "ouch " this was all via text

lets just say the relation turned sour from there and i didnt talk to her for a while.

just recently she attacked me out of nowhere, and like a total afc i stood there and took it. >.< my dilemma is that she and her friend (who i was actually good friends with until now) have both taken to ignoring me. now i need to break this bitches reality but im not sure how to go about starting a conversation yet. because

a) if i noticed im being ignored and ask them about it, it'll make me seem insecure

b) if i do nothing i cant break the reality, or if i ignore being ignored and act friendly enough to get rapport to break reality then i seem like i take shit like this all the time....

so how should i act towards the two hbitches 9 now and how should i go about shattering their "im so much better than you cause i think im prettier" mentality?

First of all, they're not bitches. You know what? You're being the bitch here. If you overreact with the negging and teasing, don't be surprised if you get punched in the face some day.

And your first two options, a) and b) are both ridiculous. When you cross the line (like you just clearly did) - you APOLOGIZE. That's the right thing to do. If you don't apologize, you clearly have too much pride and the women will sense that. Who wants a guy putting his pride above everything? That's right - your imaginary friends.

Now let me give you some proper options:

A) You apologize. "Look, I know I crossed the line earlier over the phone and I would like to apologize for that. It won't happen again. We cool?
B) You continue to be proud and call them bitches for the rest of your life, meaning that you will never fix this area of your life.

Good luck!

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NEVER over neg only neg when it is needed... this will cause you to look insecure or make u seem like your trying to be the "top shit". your options are kind of limited... but your best option is try apologizing in a creative funny way... like a small striptease.. or singing a stupid song... and just play it off like I am just a joking guy, then say something witty like without jokes what would life be like? A whole bunch of grouch my mcgrouch panties... btw grouch is the guy on sesame street that is in the trash can that is mad on the time...

hmm i kno i crossed the line, but i was saw her a couple of times after and everything seemed normal, i was at a neutral stance, she wasnt attracted but she didnt hate me either, but then some girl posed as my girlfriend, Dont kno who the fuck she was to this day, and THEN said to both of them to "fuck off wasim, cause hes mine, u sluts should stay away" afterwards, One of the hb9's attacked me for it, like it was my fault?!?!?

However

i dont mind that i can resolve the issue with them later, the clincher was she said this

"well i dont care that you dont kno her, u need to solve this, seeing as the ONLY TIME I TALK TO YOU IS WHEN YOU "LIKE" MY STATUS' " i liked her facebook shit cause i thought we were cool, not to DLV myself! so now i need to dhv and possibly demonstrate that she cant disrespect/ignore me cause she better... in short my value in her view is wat needs fixing.

sorry guys i dont mean to be an ass about this, but i really think she has a " i can control any guy i want" mentality.

Soo... Why do you give a shit about her?

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cause i wanna be the first guy to break that barrier, and maybe start something with her. if not that then i need to at least get my status back cause all her friends are ignoring me on her request.

alternatively i could apologise regardless?

Do what I said "apologize in a funny way" trust me shit works... they are so busy laughing they don't remember shit else... next charm the shit out of her and be an alpha male don't let her control u... this reminds me of this girl I gamed like 4 months back... she was a I can have and control any man I want... I had her jumping through hoops... she liked me so much so probably give her right arm to be with me but I charmed her dominated her all the time, I always flirted and she would try stuff on me and I be like about to kiss her about 80 percent and held then would just fucking walk off... I fucking dominated her bad... I had her friends, family, eating out the palm of my hand, had them talking about me like 24/7.

Read my first reply.

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ok awesome i'll bring it up when i see her next, gotta think up of funny ways to apologise for having a stalker and not being full of myself at the same time

thanks heaps guys for your replies, this really was a HUGE sticking point for me