I immediately see why you're getting a 3/10 chance of opening the set successfully.
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If there is a set of 2-3 girls just standing in the middle of the dance floor i would go in and say:
STOP! Take a step back and lets think into the psychology of where you are opening. At the dance floor everyone's energy levels will be sky high even if they are dancing or not, you will either have to leave people on the dancefloor because all they want to do is dance or go in and try to be compatible with their energy levels.
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hey girls, what you aren't good dancers that you stand here like this?"
Terrible opener however, if you took the neg out of it you probably would have more success. Say something a little more friendly such as "Hey girls, not everyday i meet someone in the middle of the dancefloor and they're not dancing." or "hey girls, why arent yous dancing" but you will need to be dancing a little, not only will this eliminate any cues that you're hitting on them it may also encourage them to dance with you. Women respond not to what you say but how the way you make them feel. Don't walk in the middle of the dancefloor and open, think about it - why would someone walk into the middle of the dancefloor to talk to a few girls when the dancefloor is there to dance? Simple, you are hitting on them. Just chance the structure a little and where you open and how you open and you'll do much better.
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them: "we are really hot in here and we just need to cool down a bit"
me: "okay that cool, is she always that crazy like that?" (point on target)
they give each other a look like wtf and say "yeah i guess.. she is really fun
There was no connection between what they said and your neg and that's why they gave a "wtf" look to each other. I would have responded with a little humour saying "well the dancefloor isn't going to cool you down haha" the negs can come later. Now this is where you got blown off thats why they took no interest in your next line, in their eyes it looks like you have intruded in their space primarily to insult them. Hence why I don't really follow MM, there's always that small chance you could accidentally insult them.
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