Toga Party.

I arrive.Right state of mind.Everyone's happy to see me.

...girls look at me.It is go time.

I open a 3-set(All wearing the same thing)
"Wow.You guys are sooo cool wearing the same thing!"

They laugh,then mistake #1:

There were 3,and I ran the best friends opener(For 2).1st time,with left HB and middle HB,it worked.2nd time,middle HB and right HB,they didn't make the eye contact.

I said "See,these tricks dont work",but then left HB goes "But how'd it work for me and middle HB?"

Almost disoriented,I go "Anyway"...then freeze up.I do my signature "I'll be back in 5" leave. That was strike 1 of downhill.

Party goes on.Flip cup arrives.This is where I do better.Right HB says table is sticky.I go "Ya kno,MAYBE if you didn't touch it,your hands would not be sticky,now would they?".She laughs.Her friend(Middle HB)laughs.It's all good.

My team dominates Flip cup(5-1).They are not as cheery as before. I let them be for now and go to beer pong room.

Girls are dancing. One I talked to earlier. I pull up(Caveman),but only for 5 sec,then they leave,and talk. I get pissed. Next thing I know, I'm switching back and forth from room to room,wishing I could get out, while the naturals are stealing the girls one by one.

Then,one of the brothers(Who thinks I'm a cool dude),wings me in with this girl who's been sweating him.She's like "Well,there's someone else I'm talking to(A natural freshman). I do my work.It goes well. The natural ends up getting it because "She liked him first".

I left right after that. Fuck that shit. This is why I get angry all the time. There's always some other asshole better than me. Had I had a bit of success, I wouldn't be furious. No, I'm still the fucking underdog,and everyone better than I am is stealing everything I'm working for.

HOWEVER,there is one factor I think killed me:I was high.

Being high makes everything funny,but you cant seem to focus. Before piffing, I was talking,and putting in work. When high, I always forgot what to say.

And,I forgot a girls name.She got pissed. I cant say fuck it, cause women, being the evilness they are, talk, and make it harder for me.

...this was disgraceful. I must reedeem myself. It's times like this I dont deserve the title of PUA,but I know deep inside it's there.

Idk. Bad mood right now. I'm up against fucking douchebags who've been partying since HS, and now I, with a brand new rep, and no previous social skills, is struggling.

Maybe Darwin was right, there is a survival of the fittest, and those who arent naturally measured up, will be weeded out of existence.

...help?

Well thats done with. There things you had working against you it was frat party the girls where most likely invited by the frat at a party these girl tend to stick around the frat boys or ppl they know. Also the girl move in tight knit packs and they keep moving. I willing to bet that girl who walked away from you was a follower and not the Leader of her group(No lose there u don't want a follower).
The trick to frat parties is to come with a girl/s u got to have that social proof. The frat guys have social proof already just for being in a frat even if they're total AFC's so you can hang with the cool frat boys the girls will usually gravitate to u. Also Never leave a set at a party like that say anything i can almost guarantee those girl thought you were weird for just leaving like that making harder for you to return to them later. And being high probably had an effect on u 2 if you're going to do that become a master at having responses to everything in that state. I don't get high but I drink from time to time. I have comebacks for everthing. Think of this as experience its only a failure if you let what happen knock you off ur future game. Have FUN!!!

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Effort surpasses Talent, but of course I already have Talent I'm just putting Effort on Top of that

Stay cool, stay focused. You're better than that. Follow the steps and don't go for too much too fast.

When the first HB asked you why it worked on her if not on her friend, You had no need to eject there. Sure that particular frame is going badly, so just end the frame and start a new one.

This is of course the pot calling the kettle black. I frequently go a bit off track on a set and can see that it will take hard work to pull it back. Sometimes I can't be assed to put the effort in at all and eject, but if you want to pull a set back, all you have to do is re-frame and carry on.

Pickup techniques are what separate us from AFC's. That's negs and routines, dhv's and dlv's as well as nlp.

Take baby steps through your pickups. Count IOI's, build attraction before comfort (I want a penny for every time I say that) and you'll find that if you focus, you'll get what you want. Also, don't sarge when you are drunk or high. A good PUA should be in full control of his energy and mood, because you never know when you will need to raise or lower your energy levels. You can't phase shift if you're stuck in one gear.

Sounds like you opened a load of sets and had a decent night though, so it's not a disaster

don't sweat it dude.. everybody has bad nights. just put it behind you as something to laugh about it and keep going. remember, it's not how you handle your successes, it's how you handle your failures

Ok i see some of you guys saying its a matter of routines and PUA stuff that not the case.
Black Bull has pretty good knowledge of it from what I can tell. The problem lies in the environment as SouthernCross put it it's a frat part the girl were invited by frat. They invite underaged girls. These girls at frat parties are a LOT STUPIDER than the ones you'll meet in a bar/club. They're solely seeking the providers of the alcohol girls can hook up with pretty much any guy there so if you dont have the juice forget u. The girls want to be able to come back to the house in the future so they feel compeled to want to talk the frat guys who invited them. I won't go as far to say those guys are naturals 90% of the frat boys are Tools they're just the providers of fun and alcohol. You might have run into some traditional girls who like certain types of guys be it: frat boys, white, black, mexican. Preferences is powerful. And yeah the group theory of followers and leader holds so true. Girls always move together and parties like that because sometimes only one them really wanted to come and she drug her 2 buddies with her. Scope for who is the leader otherwise you will get a run away set cuz if the leader walks they all walk. the leader is usually holding the followers hand leading her through house like a little puppy or simply the most vocal.
on social proof you do want to have a girl with you to open to other girls. Because if they girls are seen talking to you with ur (girl)pivot by your side. In there mind they don't have to worry so much about if Johnny Frat is getting pissed because they're talking to another guy and not him. Fratboys can act like real crybabies bitches about stuff like that. Again Girls want to be able to return to the house. I agree be Johnny Frat's friend for the night he'll introduce u to women.
Now you have a better understanding of what went on no need to be discouraged

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So u think you can handle this?

Thanks for the feedback.

Point is,I guess I'll just have to make do with what I have. Since I have no power yet, I cant really do much other than what's in my grasp.

...Good things come with persistence, but the thing is, how long do I have to persist?

what college do you go to.. it all depends because different ones function differently even despite the greek system

Kean,in Union,NJ.

that's a tough one. jersey girls are quite spunky and spontaneous but also unreliable...

since you mentioned you're a frosh then don't so much focus on bringing every girl home. If you want to get a rep then you need to start by making yourself the goto guy for fun. to do that just have fun making out with as many girls as you can at parties and less on taking them all home. once girls know you're a fun basic hookup then spread it out a little more and get a rep as a great lay and from there it'll spiral outwards

remember, you have to climb the rainbow to get to the pot of gold, you can't just skydive into the pot because you're more likely to miss