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Jon thanks for all your excellent advice throughout 2009 and Merry Xmas. The discussion on online game frames was insightful and I'd add a new one I know I often see that's probably the toughest one for most guys to message and handle for the first time with online game – the 'bitch shield' frame. It's a frame guys also have to contend with regularly, in night clubs and even in day game occasionally, for usually more attractive women who know they're hot. It's its own separate frame, but it also has elements of 3 other frames already discussed. It's definitely way harder handling this particular frame online than it is in person, as guys have more limited tools they can use.
I'll give an example, of one lady's current online profile wording below (who's easily HB 8.5 level attractive and is a single mother with a couple kids). She says she's picky about who she responds to and recently changed her profile wording (probably suggesting frustration with all the AFC messages she's implying she's presumably being bombarded with).
Obviously with this particular lady, a guy having good photos and being good looking would help, if any guy is. An AFC guy trying to be cocky funny with his own bitch shield female frame, would run the risk of falling flat on his face 99% of the time, both in real life and in online game.
Can you please suggest both a subject line and cut and paste, scripted message you'd suggest using for 'bitch shield' frame women online, who've got frustrated for one reason or another, that cleverly wouldn't appear to them as coming across as scripted and cut and paste and shows empathy, if that approach works. I suspect in this case, saying something about the fact that good photos of a guy most definitely help, but judging him by his pics only, or being fixated on pics only, is a bit superficial of her.
Of course I'd love saying : 'Looks and being attracted to a guy who's messaging you definitely helps, but it's not everything and if you're currently disappointed with this site, I don't blame you - why not use a different site instead', but I greatly doubt guys adopting an AFC bitch shield frame themselves, would get them anywhere.
'Someone that's extremely frustrated and I wanted to let you all know this. For anyone that thinks they're good looking, before you tick that box, go have a good hard look in the mirror or better yet, ask an honest stranger if they think you're good looking. To all men in a relationship and are using this as an avenue to cheat, wake up to yourself ! There's no time in life for regrets. To the rare men on here who are decent, a word of advice - the internet and this site is no place to find decent people, it's full of people that have too much time on their hands and think it's entertaining to screw with your head and emotions. I'm picky and that's why I haven't replied to 500000 messages and the ones I did reply to and thought maybe were good looking, well I worked out in the end, the photo you provided, was the best picture you've ever taken and it was most probably taken a long time ago when you looked half decent'.
I'm too impatient to let Jon answer this first. Anyway I agree with the comment about good advice
Why would you want to get together with this one? She sounds very bitter to me and highly likely to be a timewaster. At best it's a very good joke or parody. I don't think any approach would work to be honest. Move on as there are better people you can spend your time on.
If I did contact her and that would be very very unlikely. I would just amplify her attitude back. Out-bitch her! If she's joking I think she'll understand the amplified echo. I would even just copy and paste her text, change the 'men' to 'women' and exaggerate the '500000 messages' bit to '1 zillion messages.' I would even be tempted to put as a subject "Red alert... incoming male put up your bitch shield"
CHAT
There really isn't much of a need to deal with a girl like this, deal with her shit test, and hoops. Even if she is hot so what. It's not like God has stopped making women and they are near exstinction or anything...find someone else! 