I have one question - How?

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The first step is accepting the need for change...

Step one: Get a gun.
Step two:....

Seriously.
You have to make sure that he looks up to you. In that order he stays the leader of his pack, but you'll lead him.

A simple one I picked up online *forgot where* is to compliment him on something.
"Nice shoes, I used to have those too but then I found these... your toes don't hurt?"

It's like negging him. But as like a neg: stay friendly.

Don't look up to him, make sure you guys are OK and make sure you make him go "ooo" at something. Or at least make him look like a tool.

Others any more tips?

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

The best way is probably not to care about the guy. Be the first to pat his back if he says something you can laugh at and don't give him all that much attention.

Disagree with him. If he says something he thinks and you don't agree, say that out loud, but back it up with a strong argument.

"I don't agree, because..."

For me, it comes naturally. I rarely leave my home town and that might have something to do with it. Ever since I gained confidence and set up goals in life (about a year and a half ago) I have NEVER been put down from my Alpha status.

I'm sure that day will come, but when it does it won't bother me. It's not that big of a deal.