lil bit too passionate there bud but you cant touch a chcik through a pc moniter

Duh, that's why you get their number and arrange to meet them within 2 weeks.

Exactly

i think the only thing you really need to work on is your picture. take a shitload of pictures and pick the ones you think are best. personally, i had female help (close friend) to help me find the best one. you may not have that option unfortunately.

but take a shitload of pictures (at least 20) and pick the best ones. then take another SL but in a different place or outfit. try to get one of you smiling, one of you serious, and another one of you.. i dunno. sexy or model looking. just look up some model pics and imitate them

3 M's!

Mean. Moody. Magnificent!

despite this i hold the beleif that it is always better to be in a bar than in a chatroom

Well im not one to suger coat things. You look like a guy that played alot of D&D and Magic in high school. Truth be told looks do matter but they arnt everything. You profile is quite bland.

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You dont need to tell a girl everything about you on your profile. Leave somethings to talk about. Think of things that are funny and would catch you off gaurd in a profile and put those in there.

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Dude, are you just on the Online Game section to piss in people's Cheerios or what. Then go to a bar and stop wasting your time online!

And as for the topic: now you have too many pictures and your profile still hasn't changed.

Not really much I can do about my looks since I can't stand contacts and actually think that I look worse without glasses.

I scrapped the first paragraph which I never really like anyway. If I have too many pictures, which ones do you get rid of? Anyone have any idea for anything else that should be in there?

id change your profession. put something completly unreal like astronought, or bank robber. have some intrgue about u. get rid of the pics. they all either look like u have only ever been out once or only have one going out outfit.

your a fun guy who has a life. so no computer games. IT Professional is cool because its a job not a hobby.

loved the other advice about pics one model one one happy and one serious. try and get one doing something outdorsey.

i dont care about loks. glasses no glasses. cool is cool. fun is fun. women like fun, cool happy guys who are the life and soul of the party. u are that already otherwise u would not be here.


Hi I just moved here from Boston. Im new to vegas and looking to make some friends and go on some dates. Hopefully you're not a tourist lol. I'm a pretty laid back guy you should get to know me. Message me if you want to know more. -Devyn


Hi I just moved here and im looking to have fun evenings out and about in the worlds biggest playground. if you think you can keep up then get in touch. looking to meet men for friendship and women to dazzle.

life is for living.

Message me.

or something a bit more spontaneous. at least u didnt say your looking for miss right or a serious relationship. i hate that

ask yourself what ould a winner say

im a complete newbie so iv probably said that all wrong but u should not say in laid back so u should get to knew me.

again your an alpha male who has women dangling from his arm. u are giving off this impression with every sylible that u say. every pic that you show. every statement u make. so your profile needs to be like you. an MPUA

hope this helps.

I don't know. I'm starting to think online is indeed a waste of time. seems like there's nothing you can do or say anymore to distinguish yourself, create strong attraction, and get that number.

My success rate has plummeted for no apparent reason these last few months. it's getting harder and harder to get numbers. and I've spent a while pondering why this must be. but I can't figure it out. there seems to be no solution this time. It's gotten so bad that I'm thinking about scrapping the whole online game unless I hear a great idea from someone. and I mean a great idea.

I'm out of creativity as far as MySpace sarging goes.

Have you tried online sarging on an online dating site? Lots of people are abandoning myspace. This is the formula that works for me:
Send a paragraph message, mention something that shows you read the profile and might have similar interests, or better yet why this one girl stuck out to you. The more esoteric, the better. Ask an interesting question or two that she usually doesn't get. Make sure the girl knows you stopped by to chat, not just to drop her a compliment. Do this by ending the message with 'talk to me' if you have to. If no response after a few days, shoot her a playful one line message calling her out. This works about 50% of the time. Chat and fluff for a little bit and when it seems like things are comfortable enough (3-10 messages depending on the girl's confidence and interest), suggest meeting offline. You can even hail mary this if you've built enough comfort and she stops responding. Contrary to popular belief, you do not have to get a phone number or IM before this point, though they help. Some girls just prefer not to give out a number, but are comfortable meeting during the day in public.

It's freaking hard to build attraction over a computer screen, girls know this, they are eager to see how things will be in real life. If you're building attraction somehow, good for you, but it's better to do it in the real world. If a girl won't agree to meet you or give you her number, but keeps messaging, keep trying (tactfully). Use your judgment, if she seems like she's a shut in or just stringing you along, write her off. You should NEVER, NEVER, have to talk to someone for a month just to meet them, that makes for a lot of pressure. That girl's wasting your time and valuable effort.

Seriously, this shit becomes second nature after you've had a few months practice. How important is a profile? Shit if I know. Probably the most important thing is a profile that shows you're a real guy and not some rapist, sex fiend, or boring asshole. I think nothing is more important than how you handle IM and messages, but I have an awesome profile so maybe I don't know. One thing, less is more, make your profile vague, but interesting. If she wants to know shit about you, she'll ask and it'll give her something to talk about.

Oh here's a problem. What will kill you in all male/female interactions is being boring or awkward. Your pictures all look too forced, kind of like you're not comfortable in your own skin. You'd honestly be better off with a pic of you slumped over your keyboard playing WoW as long as you don't look awkward and you like being there. Your actual profile is now kinda boring, there's nothing there for a girl to latch on to, even if she desperately likes you. Don't be boring, don't be awkward and you can win. If you can't do that, fix yourself and give these girls something worth dating!