| Haven't been here in a WHILE, but here's a field-tested routine if you have some time. It works anywhere on campus a girl is sitting down and you can talk (as in prof.'s not talking).
Walk right into class (or towards a bench where they/her are sitting) and confidently stroll right to her spot.
"Hey, I apologize, but these seats are actually reserved for my friends and I."
I'll then segue into something smooth about gullibility (as in her) and how nice it is to finally meet someone so naive and believing.
Then I'll say something about how "no worries, one of my girl friends just totally got me with awesome test, let's see how bad you really are".
If I really want to bust her chops, I'll hold out my hands and say "give me your hands" (like I'm gonna read her palms). This is good kino, I'll hold em for a second, take a deep breath like I'm about to do something, then throw her hands away smiling "wow, that's gullible test number two fail" or something like that.
At this point, her face usually tells me "wow, this guy is so confident, funny and intriguing".
Then, the real test I'll show her is the 5-question test (where the fifth is "oh shit you got me, have you done this before").
She loves it, I'll then go straight into a cold-read about her (I like to cold-read her as quiet, "I don't know if anyone's ever told you this, but you kinda look like you'd talk a lot and be really outgoing, but you're surprisingly quiet.")
Huge challenge to her, this leads into emotional connection and rapport building talk for a couple minutes (this is my weakness and my next thread...attraction/intrigue is easy for me, but escalating it is my weak-point right now).
At this point, if you've body-languaged and framed everything right, she'll be wanting to give you HER number. You can # close, continue it, whatever.
As you can see through this, there are a lot of challenges and qualifications involved on her part. I've kinda gotten to the point where I only want to deal with the certain girls who qualify themselves up to this point.
Challenge 1 is how she responds to the opener.
Challenge 2 is the "you're quiet" cold-read.
Then, if I'm still going with this, I'll use Style's EV routine after a couple more minutes of emotional connection/rapport talk. If she passes all 3, I'll give her a shot.
Also, I didn't come up with this, read it somewhere, but whenever I read her as quiet (or do anything that should get a ball-busting response) and she hits me back, I always respond (teasingly and congruently) "Are you giving me shit? Get outta here, I'll kick your ass." That line works like gangbusters. You should probably push 'em away there too (kino).
Let me know if anyone else gives this a shot. Has worked for me over and over, class, parks, cafes, wherever.
EDIT: Body language is huge throughout this whole thing. It should feel like for her this whole conversation is just you guys "hitting it off" and her attraction is this universal coincidence, not something you're manipulating. Just let it FLOW.
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