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Yeah thats all great but what if you don't have good judgement in just acting naturally? When I act naturally I misread social situations and do really awkward things. And all that stuff may be true, but then what if you don't know what to talk about??
everything can't be scripted man.. if u intend to have a particular line ready for each of the many interactions to come, you'll suffer a lot. trust me, I've been there.
It's nice to have a couple of routines to add a little spice to the chatting but it must be YOU talking, not a bunch of posters in a PUA forum.
in the acting naturally thing, the only tip I can give u is to go social. Dont take me wrong, all I'm saying is that u must be accostumed to speak naturally with strangers. how to do that? By talking more to total strangers. Talking naturally with ur words is actually better than following by heart some routine stack, because of the often lack of congruence. And I bet it takes less time to be natural than to memorize and field test routines.
sometimes u just have to experiment by your own and get accostumed to talking to total strangers, because we cant help u by giving u topics to talk about..
I really hoped it helped man..
much love,
-Teague