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PostPosted: Wed Aug 05, 2009 11:11 am 
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Hi,

I'm 14, is it too young to start becoming a pua? I have read the game and some others books so i understand how it works but i'm 14. I'm not allowed into any clubs. But still I think that its never too early to start.

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Start being social first.


create a nice group of friends at school, since there's where you'll be gaming for now :p.
It's mostly social circles.


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You don't have to go to clubs in order to work on your body language, tonality or inner game. And school is a great place to practice your social skills :)


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hey im 15 i know how you feel

like that one guy said its mostly social circles master you game in that is one of the first things you need to do. gaming can be alot easier only if you make it (in school)

work on having a natural life style what i mean by that is to learn this stuff and sense your young like me, gaming will become natuaral life style

if you have a myspace hit me up at joshuacouncil22@yahoo.com

i have something that can really help you
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yo cidane i dont have myspace but i want whatever u wanna give the guy...thx


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My opinion. YES.

You are to young.

The pick up community is not regulated, it has many great people and many not so great.

It's often a tottaly lifestyle changing experience, and so it's not something that should really be looked at until you have developed a maturity in order to handle complex notions of self etc

At your age it's great to be social, but the community in my view is to full on.

Did that clear it up a bit?


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Yes far too young. I have to agree with FIN

The only advice I'll give you is to be social, go out ride a bike with your friends. Join a local team/club of whatever hobby you're into. If you decide to play computer games don't do it on your own and online multiplayer does not count.

That way you'll learn to be social and around people.


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i will say this i do have ALOT of respect for fin

but i disagree, but not that the fact that im young as well

think back on why you wanted to become a PUA. probably because in high school there was a girl that you always wanted to talk to because you didnt have the guts, or
you were a shy person and just wanted to get out.

well in my case i thought having a girl would solve all my problems and it didnt.
i thought a girl could make me happy but i was DEAD wrong.

i havent had it easy. had alot of personal problems with family and stuff.
but i noticed every girl i tried to talked to i got dissed or the relationship didnt last very long.

so i wanted to know why and thats when i found magic bullets. it changed me i learned, i stayed up all night reading and reading to ind the answers i was looking for. and i found them, studied them, and learn how to avoid them.

im sorry fin, but i had to know why it wasnt turning out the way it did. and i found answers.

for example, look at sin!! he started out young, and look were he is now!

so i dont think he is to young


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Well imo you're never too young to start working on getting the good habits that will make you a natural PUA as you get older. In any case, if you get into bad habits now, especially avoiding social situations and interactions, that's gonna make your entire life an uphill battle. 14 is young enough to easily redefine who you are now and who you want to be, especially if you have some solid guidance and advice from someone that you trust and someone that's not too much older that you feel you can't really relate. God I only WISH I had someone in their twenties giving me advice on social situations when I was in my early/mid teens. I learned so many things the hard way, and still have some bad habits and bad memories that could easily have been avoided if I had a place like this to learn from.


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I wanna thank you for your reply s, but still the reason that I found this community and read the techniques is because I didn't (and don't) think that I am social enough with girls.

If you say things like, be social! That is what i am trying to do and i doesn't work with girls! I have many great friends (not girlfriends, guys) that i know for more then 5 years. I'm am social enough with them but not with the girls:(

And this whole pua thing is almost all about getting more girls in you're life, right! :?

Or am I totally wrong?

Anyways thanks for the support :)


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for example, look at sin!! he started out young, and look were he is now!
"Because Sinn was underage when he foud the community, he was forced to do a lot of day game."

You're totally right!!!! I got it from sinn's page when you click on his picture (next to the others pua's)


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thanks

ill say it again im 15

so im SO glad that i learned this stuff now then later

the only thing now i got to do is practice. and i will say its not that fun of a experiance. i fuck up, know what i did wrong, and still didnt do it right but practice makes perfect.

i will say that i am intimidated to talk to older girls but i have to get used to it.

if you guys ever saw me, i dont look like im 15. i can easly lie about my age. but its the fact i dont like to lie and everytime i tell them my age there are going to shit test me everytime.

i will say its going to be alot harder then going out to the field. the thing is with school, if you fuck up with a girl, you litarally have to see that girl every dam day. and that can be quit harsh

READ MAGIC BULLETS, WATCH THE MYSTERY METHOD, READ THE MYSTERY METHOD LEARN!!!!

you can find the books at warez-bb.org and thats for everybody. you make a free account and bam you got your answers

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I think it would have been awesome to have the information around when I was your age. I'm 31 and just getting in to this stuff. It's fucking hard. I had to grow up in middle school/high school watching buddies get girls and getting laid. I never got anything. My first kiss was when I was 25. My first lay was from studying PUA and seeing an opportunity a co-worker provided for me. I say, if your father, a brother, or a friend can't/doesn't teach you this, you need the information. the earlier in life you gain these skills, the better off you are. When I turned 30 a virgin, I was on the edge of killing myself. So, soak it up, practice, learn to be social, and your life will be SO much easier and so less painful.


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You don't need to pick up girls at that age. I wouldn't get too involved. Just become more social and confident, and they alone will set you up for the future.


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i will say this i do have ALOT of respect for fin

but i disagree, but not that the fact that im young as well

think back on why you wanted to become a PUA. probably because in high school there was a girl that you always wanted to talk to because you didnt have the guts, or
you were a shy person and just wanted to get out.

well in my case i thought having a girl would solve all my problems and it didnt.
i thought a girl could make me happy but i was DEAD wrong.

i havent had it easy. had alot of personal problems with family and stuff.
but i noticed every girl i tried to talked to i got dissed or the relationship didnt last very long.

so i wanted to know why and thats when i found magic bullets. it changed me i learned, i stayed up all night reading and reading to ind the answers i was looking for. and i found them, studied them, and learn how to avoid them.

im sorry fin, but i had to know why it wasnt turning out the way it did. and i found answers.

for example, look at sin!! he started out young, and look were he is now!

so i dont think he is to young
Your argument comprises of a success story for someone young.

Thats great, hurray you.

But this isn't you, this is someone else.

PU can make you more confident and sociable and better with women. But sometimes it makes you worse, and often it makes you appear more confident, and better with women.

But really your all messed up.

The key word here is regulated.

The PU community does not work like the VH1 show, or whatever mystery is running right now. mystery is commmercial and not an accurate representation of the other teachers in PU, thier philosophies, ideologies or moral standards.

Being good with women, and being a good human being with a sane emotional mind are not similar traits.

Look up the poet Lord Byron to see what I mean.

Your story is a good story, it is a demonstration of what happens when things go right, but it doesn't deal with what can go wrong. ESPECIALLY, with those so young and easily influenced.

At the age of 14 you've barely developed a sense of identity, or even a personal taste in women/men and many other things, your still running on social refrencing, (sub-concsiously checking with society about what you should like and not like)

You may not notice it, but you are developing Emotionally, cognitivly and even spiritually as well as puberty causing physical growth, and it is vital that this growth is un-hindered.

The reason alot of RAFC's run into trouble is that they have not had a normal social adolesance, or adult hood for that matter. They fail to understand normal social boundries and parimiters, so their interpretation of who is enlightened and who is not with regards to opinions on society is flawed along with thier understanding of most PU material as they have not really experienced the context in which it is written.

Put simply the PU scene has alot of faces and can be incredibly complex and intensive, it is not a stable enviroment to develop in at such a young age. You can devlop in the communtiy as many have done, but it requires a maturity and experience to develop in a way that is good for you.


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