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i will say this i do have ALOT of respect for fin
but i disagree, but not that the fact that im young as well
think back on why you wanted to become a PUA. probably because in high school there was a girl that you always wanted to talk to because you didnt have the guts, or
you were a shy person and just wanted to get out.
well in my case i thought having a girl would solve all my problems and it didnt.
i thought a girl could make me happy but i was DEAD wrong.
i havent had it easy. had alot of personal problems with family and stuff.
but i noticed every girl i tried to talked to i got dissed or the relationship didnt last very long.
so i wanted to know why and thats when i found magic bullets. it changed me i learned, i stayed up all night reading and reading to ind the answers i was looking for. and i found them, studied them, and learn how to avoid them.
im sorry fin, but i had to know why it wasnt turning out the way it did. and i found answers.
for example, look at sin!! he started out young, and look were he is now!
so i dont think he is to young
Your argument comprises of a success story for someone young.
Thats great, hurray you.
But this isn't you, this is someone else.
PU can make you more confident and sociable and better with women. But sometimes it makes you worse, and often it makes you appear more confident, and better with women.
But really your all messed up.
The key word here is regulated.
The PU community does not work like the VH1 show, or whatever mystery is running right now. mystery is commmercial and not an accurate representation of the other teachers in PU, thier philosophies, ideologies or moral standards.
Being good with women, and being a good human being with a sane emotional mind are not similar traits.
Look up the poet Lord Byron to see what I mean.
Your story is a good story, it is a demonstration of what happens when things go right, but it doesn't deal with what can go wrong. ESPECIALLY, with those so young and easily influenced.
At the age of 14 you've barely developed a sense of identity, or even a personal taste in women/men and many other things, your still running on social refrencing, (sub-concsiously checking with society about what you should like and not like)
You may not notice it, but you are developing Emotionally, cognitivly and even spiritually as well as puberty causing physical growth, and it is vital that this growth is un-hindered.
The reason alot of RAFC's run into trouble is that they have not had a normal social adolesance, or adult hood for that matter. They fail to understand normal social boundries and parimiters, so their interpretation of who is enlightened and who is not with regards to opinions on society is flawed along with thier understanding of most PU material as they have not really experienced the context in which it is written.
Put simply the PU scene has alot of faces and can be incredibly complex and intensive, it is not a stable enviroment to develop in at such a young age. You can devlop in the communtiy as many have done, but it requires a maturity and experience to develop in a way that is good for you.