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 Post subject: Should I dump my gf?
PostPosted: Sat May 16, 2009 10:07 pm 
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Ok, In general she is like 6 in my opinion, body (except face) is like 8. Face like 4 :)

So, should I dump her or not? I do not have any gf here, but it is kind of convenient as we f...k once a month, wich is perfect for me. The deal works perfectly for me as I am very busy with my work/project.

I just do not feel confident to find another one, can not overcome fear of aproach and after aproach I feel I have nothing to talk with those girls. also feel kind of down because of my english being second language.

On the other side I have/had many girfriends in Thailand, had one gf in Japan and one in China, where being foreigner is big DHV. Maybe I am just not acustomed with american culture that much as I live here like 15 years. Maybe just feel like an outsider. I feel I have a lot to offer to the girl once she knows me better.

Any advice would be apreciated.


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PostPosted: Sat May 16, 2009 11:47 pm 
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I think you should first fuck her and then dump her :evil: haha. Well it seems like your well traveled and you probably have lots of good DHV stories. I'd say dump her and then just start gaming.

I'm kinda in that same situation with an hb8. I got some pussy from her but for some reason I feel like it's not enough. So I guess I just want a more challenging girl or hotter one that I can break and just fuck the shit out of her.

I know I'm different but hey what the hell I got raging hormones.

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PostPosted: Sun May 17, 2009 12:38 am 
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First I think this is a question that should be answered by you not us, for 3 reasons
1- You are going to get sincere and insincere answers.
2- You are going to get yes and no answers
3- It is your gf and your life, I can understand why you are not sure if you can get another gf if you dump her and why you can't get past your Approach Anxiety you can't even make a simple life decision for yourself without getting approval or disapproval from people you don't even know.
Now while number 3 may seem like an attack on you it is not meant in that regard but maybe it's what you need. You sound like you lack confidence to me so I would certainly work on that.
Also in the end it comes down to whether you feel anything for the girl or how she makes you feel. If you are happy when you are around her then why give that up for the possibility you may oneday overcome your limitting factors and be a PUA oneday?
Take into account how she feels about you as well, the fact and make a post like that tells me you are not a very convincing bf to her so I don't imagine that she is head over heels in love with you. But if she is do you really want to hurt her?
But remember she is a female so she could replace you in one outting to the mall or a club guys unless they already have game can rarely make that same statement.
You may have already gathered I am not going to give you a yes or no answer I suggest you use your own intuition and decide for yourself.
If you are offended by my post I make no apologies but know it was not my intention.

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 Post subject: You are right
PostPosted: Sun May 17, 2009 1:01 am 
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I knwo you are correct, I do luck of confidence. One reason is that like what you just said, I do not want to hurt her. I would probably brake up with her already if not that. Does she make me happy, the answer is yes and now. I was more happy around other gfs I had in the Past. But is not that I am not happy with her at all, it is complicated. I knwo 100% she is not my dream gf, that is what it is :)

I wonder how other PUAs handle this kind of issue(s). I guess one must be very carefull what kind of gf he wants, noy only for sex as it leads to big issues later...


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PostPosted: Sun May 17, 2009 1:32 am 
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IMO 1 in 1000 people get their dream gf anyone on this site that says they have the dream gf I have one question for you WTF are you doing on this forum then? If the answer is she is not enough then she is not the dream gf the dream gf becomes a wife and someone that makes the thought of sleeping with someone else seem totally wrong and would never take the chance of hurting or losing her. So your chances of finding your dream girl are very slim pal its a fact of life sometimes you just have to settle for what you have. While picking up new girls all the time seems like a lot of fun and a great lifestyle it comes with its disadvantages as well you miss out on emotional connections, the family life and just having someone that loves you and wants to always be there for you. Guys if you's want to argue any of my post please remember this post is about radiogeneris's question and in the chance of making it a bickering about my post instead of his question please feel free to PM me with any arguements you may have with my post so radio can get the responses he wants.

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