| oh god. well, she may have to grow up a little, buddy. she has delusions or grander about meeting the "perfect guy" again or whatever, but obviously by the kino her body is telling her otherwise. if i were you, while we were hanging out, and she began to get more comfortable and touchy, i'd spontaneously take her somewhere a bit romantic. since she'll already be in a comfortable state, she won't be so apprehensive if all is correct. once arrived, just talk about things that don't instill negative thoughts. talk about the future, and things she likes, dreams, whatever. but don't talk about negative things. escalate kino more. i don't know what kind of geographical area you are in, or how the climate is, but if it's cold that's an easy kino escalation. if you feel that the comfort level is at an all time high, start talking about the girl you envision yourself being with, but describe her. now don't tell her this, of course, make it seem natural, and don't do it down to a T. she'll put it together though. maybe at the end of the night, if you feel like you can without making her feel too weird, give her a kiss on the cheek. cheesy, i know, but girls are cheesy. especially at that age, and especially girls like that.
she'll make the next move. you have to charm her, bro. and to be charming is to pretty much put her in a spell. when she's with you, only make her feel good, not bring up things that will make her feel negative in any way. take her to places she hasn't been, do thing she hasn't done, exceed her expectations of what she thought was possible in a guy, and you've won. it's a tremendous feat, but if executed correctly, works wonders. Always keep her comfort in mind, and you don't want to move to fast either. her natural romanticism will do most of the work in her head for you.
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