First prospect - nice work on the trial opener.
i think it was an excellent one and has good potential - but after your opener you built no rapport with her. You have come off interesting, bold and confident from the start - which is appealing to a women. but after that you need to build some kind of familiarity between you two.
there is norhing wrong with the common questions here - what do you LIKE to do? tried anythign new lately? etc
when you stop to talk to a girl remember - YOU ARE SEEING IF SHE IS RIGHT FOR YOU!!!! The conversation you have is to see if she could be someone your interested in - there is no need going on a date with a chick you have NOTHING in common with and cant even hold your conversation - i fuckin hate boring chicks who cant take my shit and give it back - i can tell this in an initial conversation. if i dont feel it, i just say... 'thanks, ill catch you later'
SECONDLY...
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she didn't answer her phone

I'm gunna call her tomarrow and see if she wants to meet me at a club. I thought it was a good opener but maybe your right )
i want to to start reading some posts by magic - ill try find one i read the other day. You mind set and languge is ALL wrong!!
found it: check out the way he writes - he sounds bold, assertive, confident and above all FUN (all which chicks LOVE)
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dont see if she wants to meet up - tell her to meet you - dont be disgruntled about her not answering - she is missing out on hanging with an outgoing fun guy - fuck her. it was a good opener - but just needs a bit of work on the follow up.
you sound full of doubt about yourself... no, no and no
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. How long do you wait 2 call? I know the standard is 3 days but I ususally try to do anywhere from 4 to 6 days unless under special circumstances.)
forget all rules about this - i am a true believer on calling when you feel is the right time. Now, the right time is dependant on how strong your initial contact is. With your minimal contact and rapport, i would have called the next day - and possibly even messaged something playful as soon as she walked away to strengthen the contact.
If the contact is real strong - then you could leave it up to three days.
Also, when calling - i think something good to do is to keep yourself busy while talking. clean room, walking down the street etc this allows you not concentrate on your words too much and allows for more natural flow.
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2. How many attempts do you give a girl before you toss her number? for instance the number I got at the stop light she didn't answer. I'm gunna call 2marrow. if she still flakes should I do the old 3 strikes and your out? that is what I usually play by. Give me some opinions folks I don't wanna start a whole thread on this bullshit.

im happy with three strikes - there are heaps of other women to do...