more confused after reading all top PUA books



Users browsing this forum: Bing [Bot] and 12 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2008 2:59 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Nov 28, 2008 2:18 am
Posts: 7
hey im new to the seduction scene and have been reading all of the biggest seducers books like Gamblers, Deangelos and mysteries. I think im a little bit more confused now on how to deal with women because all three PUA's have different styles. Which one should I start practicing in clubs or should I try them all out or interweave certain details from all three? Also what do you think about Gamblers audio programs. Do they really help?
thanks
Evan


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2008 3:07 am 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Thu Sep 11, 2008 10:19 am
Posts: 1688
Location: UK
I know exactly where you are here I literally read everything and ended up with a jumble of a1 vacuums and all sorts of other theories mixed up in my head, I think your best bet is to go out and see what you remember without thinking. This will help you clear your mind, which is important.
I would also re-write material in your own words and if anything doesn't seem like you ditch it.
There is a time and a place for going outside your comfort zone but there is also a time for seeing what suits you.
I am a tad drunk so i will try to wrap this up, look at the core messages of the different techniques, think why does this work not how can I use this. Like mysteries a1-a3 etc god that confused the hell out of me until I made it relevant to myself. Basically take the best bits from the different styles, make them relevant to yourself and go from there.


Give me a PM if you need any help :)

_________________
Troll the trolls
free book http://www.4shared.com/file/123140320/b ... ndows.html


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2008 3:09 am 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum
User avatar

Joined: Sun Nov 16, 2008 8:09 pm
Posts: 106
Location: Winnipeg, mb, canada
hey broseph, Its not the styles, its the principles. What do these guys all have in common? Playfullness, Insinuation, Trust, that desire to get better. Use the principles and yourself, we're all unique, so if you better yourself, you'll become skilled on the same lvl as them, but you'll retain the good quilities you've got, just like any other person on this forum, they'll bring there unique character to the field. Choose what ever you think you like, pick out all the stuff you can use. I'm not that great either, but i have had some experience and a longer time to think about this subject, i'm sure you'll get better in no time since your actually taking the steps to get better. Good luck to you sir

_________________
"Crushing requires a crushing mood" Miyamoto Musashi


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2008 3:12 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Addict
User avatar

Joined: Fri Nov 14, 2008 6:35 am
Posts: 239
Location: Usually in front of my laptop, half naked.
Yup, each PUA has their own style.
What you need to do is put your books down, get out and sarge your butt off now.
Find out what works and what doesn't for you personally. You are not Gambler, Mystery, Style or any of them. You need your own personal style.
So go out, find a club, bar or wherever you can to sarge your butt off. Make approaches, try out a million different techniques go until you have talked to every person on the area. Then go back, write up a FR, find out what worked, what didn't and go from there. Keep refining until you've got it down.

Then you know what you do?

Pick up a new book (I'd suggest some of Juggler's stuff), read it, then repeat.

PUA is like any art, it is constantly evolving and each artist is going through evolution with it.

Good luck,

Cinnamon

_________________
Quote:
Can't wait for a hot n steamy LR from this forum's favorite nympho :P
Quote:
cinnamon spice, ice queen of PUAF chat
Image


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2008 3:26 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Nov 28, 2008 2:18 am
Posts: 7
Ok. So i Should go out and just practice practice and practice.. I will do that. But what do you guys think about gamblers audio programs for those who have tried it. I am somewhat low on confidence. The approaching confidence one looks interesting. Should I invest my time and money into it or are there other ways to get my confidence level up?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2008 7:23 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Nov 21, 2008 7:35 pm
Posts: 15
There is not 1 style or method that works all the time or else wed all be using it. You should take what you like in each persons method and incorporate it into your own game in your own way.


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 6 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link