Hey guys.
I was at a party this weekend and my ex was there too. I was talking and flirting with a bunch of girls and she started hitting on my beer pong partner. I didn't pay any attention to it, but it made me a little uncomfortable.
As we were playing "cups" I happened to be on my ex's team and we chit chated about random shit and right before she left the table, she came up to me and said "you suck dick" in a quite voice with a fearful face expression. WTF did she mean by this? I reply "What!?" with a smile. She says "just kidding". Then she walks off to the beer pong table. I play another round and go out for a cig.
Her sister kept checking up on me when I went out to the balcony to have a smoke, she saw me flirting with a girl and immidiatly took out her phone and started typing something. I guess she was reporting on me to her sis.
I come inside and guess what? Her sis, my ex is making out with my beer pong buddy right near the table lmao. I was gona kick the guys ass, but went out again and tried to calm myself down, lol I was so shocked and angry, I got the anger part somewhat under control.
I decided that I had enough to drink and couldn't control my emotions anymore and I left the apartment, guess who I see making out on the stair case? Yes...

I was the one who broke up with her and I'm guessing it caused her to get back at me like this.

it means that she trying to get you jealous. I dont know why it bother you acutally i do. Male has this territory instinct and you still think she yours even though you are not together. Fuck your ex, just have fun . you are letting her get to you. When she came up to you and say "you suck dick" meaning she notice that whatever she was doing earlyer was not affecting you( at that time). Dont try to get revenge or what not thats just plain childish and it shows. Be the bigger man, Have Fun and let your Ex be. when she notice its not effecting you she will be more pissy. My advice
1) get over her making out/ seeing other guys.
2) dont pay attention to her, treat her as any normal girl at the party
3) revenge is only gonna make it worst (unless you can get away with it)
4) HAVE FUN!!! Dont let her ruin it for you.

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first off WTF???, kick the guys ass?? wow, you break up with her and know your pissed at some guy cause your EX is kissing someone, why not get pissed at yoru EX..that guy did nothing its not like you own her...
or better yet dont get pissed at all
YOUR NOT DATING ANYMORE, you have no right to be mad...

anyways, you broke up with her your at a party hittin on girls of course your ex is getting jealous and she is trying to get you jealous....and she cuold be trying to get you jealous just to piss you off, which shouldnt work cause YOU broke up with her..or she is trying to get you jealous cause she still likes you...
either way she is jealous... dont worry about what she does just do your own thing and if you show you dont care at all, im sure this will bother her tremendously for awhile, until she gets over that trying to get you jealous stage....

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Agreed with the above posts. You broke up with her, so you should make yourself not care at all what she does. She's just trying to make you jealous to see if she can get a reaction. Don't let it work...do your own thing and ignore her.

Gruuve

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Huh?

Every other topic on this forum has something to do with "how do we steal her from her boyfriend?" . . . Who do you think those "boyfriends" are? People you've never met before? Some crazy communist guy you'll never ever see? People who aren't members of this forum?

Women are natural born cheaters. . . and in this case, she's not even cheating. She's having fun making you jump up and down like a monkey while sticking her tongue down a guy's throat. . . and then even more fun getting his cock shoved down her throat later on.

2 choices. If it's driving you that crazy, then show up with a bunch of flowers and chocolates and get on your knees. (There is nothing wrong with this if you love her.) Otherwise . . . Arnold . . . the . . . MAN, grab some sack and move on. . .

haha nice posts. I agree with what all of you say for the most part.

I won't try to get back at her. I go to parties to enjoy myself not play some jealousy games. Trying to hurt a girl is just low. Her sister and cousin influence her, when we spent time together she was the sweetest girl ever, but those bitches would always get her to play games with me.

Thing is I was over it, until she did that shit. I was and still am in love with her, but I'm not going to lower myself to a suck-up level in order to pursue her. I got a one-itis, but no fucking way it's bringing me on my knees. It's only emotions and my commitment to not dating whores is stronger than my love.

About kicking the guy's ass thing, well you see there is more to that.
I thought he was my buddy, I helped him work on his car for two days before the party and given that it was only a few weeks since I broke up with her I don't understand how a man could cross me like that. I never did anything to harm the guy. Next time I saw him he greeted my friends and completely ignored me.
I have a fast car, and I think the mofo is jealous his isn't as fast. If he does this again I won’t think twice.

The memory of them kissing is haunting me. I don't know why I'm explaining myself here like a woman; I just need a lady friend to share this with. Don’t give me sympathy; this post is to let the tension out

I'm in the same boat kinda. Just real jealous over a girl who I have no business being mad at, and it's been driving me nuts. She actually gave her number to my friend(who I've been mad at) so I'm in a similar position. BUT, if he's a VERY close friend that's messed up. If he's the kind of guy you see maybe a couple times a month, I'd let it go...It's the hard truth but if you don't your going to either drive yourself crazy or be with her lol. It's lose lose for you brotha...Just go out and get another girl!

we're r here to help n have fun dont let it get 2 u... just do ur thing at parties n dont talk to dat 'buddy' of urs no more forreal

As you can tell in my previous post, I took the whole thing a bit lightly. . . until I read your little sentence above.

Call me a romantic, afc, whatever you want . . . but I believe in love. We try to dissect all the facets of attraction and run our little games but even if we can "explain it", we really can't over come it. . . can we? Love is love. Don't take this lightly. Go ahead and do every trick in the book. Screw 10 other girls. Date 10 other girls, etc . . but you have to figure this out quickly.

I bet every guy here still has that one. That one you still cannot get out of your mind no matter what after all those years.. My God, I have that ONE . . . but for me to have made it work with her, I had to throw EVERYTHING ELSE away. I mean everything like the type you can't imagine everything. And I still think about her now and then. Should I have done it?

Regrets suck but regrets in regards to LOVE is the worst thing a guy can have for his lifetime. You ever talk to those 65 year old dudes who share tears over their sweethearts? I mean this is totally nuts! I met old dudes who recall colors, scents, hands, dances, moles, smiles, conversations, arguments, etc . . . I even know a 60+ year old couple who married other ppl but still loved each other ALL 40 + years. When one divorced and the other became a widow, they somehow found each other and actually MARRIED. This is fortunate . . . but they lost 40 years . . .

Not saying your love for this girl is one way or another because only you can figure this out. So after all this, the 2 choices I posed on my initial post still stands. Continue with your life . . . or give love a shot . . .

If you want her back, this is the forum to ask the questions on HOW TO get her back. You do NOT need to suck up to her. You don't have to lower your standards and YOU SHOULD NOT accept her tag alongs fucking things up for your relationship.

Look, don't confuse your situation with oneitis. "Oneitis" is a disease chumps get who haven't even kissed the girl. You spent time with her . . . this is different. If you're undecided . . you know what? I'd still game her and win her back. At least this way, you'd have more time to spend with her and figure this out further. You leave her out in the water for long and as you've already found out, plenty horny guys out will swoop her up.

I love your posts.
You express energy that I find main streams PUA's to lack. You show me this romantic perspective and give a side of me some hope.

I'm going to think this over.

Thank you my friend.

Sounds like everyone was drunk. If you still have feelings for this girl you should be honest with her instead of getting mad at her for hooking up with other men, but that last place that any sort of relationship defining should happen is at a drunken beer pong party.