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some people I talked to told me that this doesn't really work. In my mind it does. so fuck em Wink


After some time of being in the field and meeting tons of people, I have edited the "rating scale." I feel that the HB system is out dated and barbaric. Its too simple, and is not a good enough guide. So what I did was created my own system to "critique" women by. Naturally, people judge others by a lot more than two numbers, but for communication and getting your point across, this system works a lot better than HB1-10.

A womans physical appearance, confidence level, and core strength gives her the PA (physically attractive) rating.
A womans intelligence, book smarts, life experiences, conversation ability, and general rapport with you gives her the MA (mentally attractive) rating.

The sliding scale for this system is 1-5.
1.) Physically/Mentally unattractive
2.) Physically/Mentally not unattractive, but not cute
3.) Physcially/Mentally cute
4.) Physically/Mentally cute but not hot
5.) Physically/Mentally hot

There is no typical "average" person because a girl that could be an HB8 to you, could be an HB10 or an HB1 to someone else; it was way to grossly generalized. This makes it much more specific for the PUA writing/experiencing, and much easier to understand for those reading/helping.

The HB systems only point was so that when explaining situations to other people, they could understand where she sits in YOUR mind, and where she stands in HER mind. She could have had the looks of an HB5 but since she had the confidence of an HB10, a lot of people would still just say she is an HB8. The system needed updating; and having two different ratings that are more basic....it somehow works out that it is more productive and descriptive as well.

Some people will see that as too much effort, but a simple (PA#/MA#) works. And this way we know whether you are talking about a 19 year old cheerleader (PA5/MA1) thaodt you cant stand to listen to....or a scholar that is a part time model (PA5/MA5). So on, and so on.


I am going to begin to use this scale and I believe it would be in the best interest of the community to follow suit. It will work better and is actually more fair to those being judged Wink

It also helps every teacher/mentor get a more personal feel of what types of people you are interested in, and how you actually judge men or women...as apposed to the simple : HB8 - someone a bit above average.


I would really love some input. If perfected, this is something that could (and should) one day become applicable community wide.

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it is probably just you; however, I can not deny that I break many of life's rules. Things are just so much more fun that way.

You can delete the other post if you want, but this is an awesome idea that deserves attention. I am not going to let my efforts go to waste - so if I have to try reposts, then I am sorry...but I am going to re-try.

besides, it isn't like I am spamming for advice or asking a duplicate question. I am providing a concept that many people will benefit from.

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I like the idea Locke. I would add a Social scale along the lines of occupation or career to the new rating system. Girls that have boring, uninteresting jobs tend to have boring, uninteresting personalities to match. Also the other day this cute girl I was talking to told me she works at McDonalds full time and it really kind of turned me off. I'm too picky. (Someone call me a gold digger quick.)

Nonetheless, to be quite honest, when you get to either extreme of the physical desirability scale, the Mental and Social scale becomes moot. No matter how interesting a woman is, if I don't find her physically attractive all she will be is a friend, not a mate.

On the other hand, blond airhead bimbos like Paris Hilton are physically attractive by our society's standards, despite being blond airhead bimbos...although in Paris's case her social rating would pretty high as well (oh yeah, I'd marry her and make sure she forgot to sign the prenup :lol: j/k). Even if we were to assume her Mental rating was a 1, I think most guys would not pass up an opportunity to hook up with her.

If we really wanted to get in-depth about assigning HB ratings, we could add adjustable weights to the three different scales of P/M/S (Somebody lol quick). It should start out at 90% Physical, 2% Mental, 8% Social. As the relationship progresses, it should then teeter towards 33% Physical, 33% Mental, 33% Social.

Yes, I would do Paris Hilton.

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tisk, tisk, sir, for rulebreaking.

However, it's a piss-poor shame people didn't pay attention to this, or at least, critique the hell out of it. In a constructive way. I know you want this to be thought about, mixed around, made-over, and potentially used.

I think many of the senior members know that I'm not a fan of the HB scale, especially when used to "brag" or "critique" a girl to friends. Whatever, nothing I EVER say will change the need for men to brag in the locker room. I've always said that the HB scale is best used for calibration of approach rather than hotness.

I think you're on to something with the mental addition. However, though I find this a shame, not all men are going to base half their attraction on a girl on her mental capacity to be a rockstar.

I stick to my guns when I believe that the HB scale is another term, like marriage, that has taken on way more than it can handle. When we speak of "marriage," we speak of a spiritual union as well as a religious union. When we speak of the "HB scale," we have to figure out if we're talking about her VALUE to male sociaty or her self VALUE. Waaaaay too much going on there.

I don't have a solution for you, other than to say... maybe there's a way to make this all work where it's a comment on her self-confidence value as a human being in society (how you should calibrate your approach) and how much of a smoking babe she is (so others will understand how hot this chick is.)

Is there a universal way to unite both ways of using the HB scale to this newer, braver, accuracy? Cheers to you for taking the first step. Boo to me for not being able to concretely offer up a solution.

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I like the idea of a more accurate scale, but there are just a few things I wanted to point out.

When determining the physical attractiveness of a woman, there are different types. I'm sure you are all familiar with cute vs. hot. Both can be incredibly attractive, but it depends on personal preference. I usually find myself more drawn to cute women over hot women. There really is no way to convey to someone else how attractive a woman is by using a number without using a picture. The only thing we can convey is how attractive that woman is to you because you are the one assigning the arbitrary value to her attractiveness.

The thing I don't like about the HB scale is that most people start with a number based on a woman's physical attractiveness and then move that number up or down based upon her mental attractiveness. This is ambiguous because a woman who is drop dead gorgeous (10) with no personality might be a HB7.5 and a woman who is average looks with an awesome personality could also be a HB7.5.

I like your idea of using two numbers but I think your scale is unnecessary because everyone will rate on their own scale because that is all we can rate on. I think it can be simplified by just making an add-on to the HB terms.

For instance, the two women I described earlier could be described as a HB10/3 and a HB7/9. Where the first number represents physical attractiveness and the second represents mental attractiveness.

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I stick to my guns when I believe that the HB scale is another term, like marriage, that has taken on way more than it can handle. When we speak of "marriage," we speak of a spiritual union as well as a religious union. When we speak of the "HB scale," we have to figure out if we're talking about her VALUE to male sociaty or her self VALUE. Waaaaay too much going on there.
I believe that the only thing that any rating scale like this can possibly represent is a person's attractiveness to you, the rater. Nothing more and nothing less. Everyone has different preferences on both physical, mental, and all other levels.

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I think many of the senior members know that I'm not a fan of the HB scale, especially when used to "brag" or "critique" a girl to friends. Whatever, nothing I EVER say will change the need for men to brag in the locker room. I've always said that the HB scale is best used for calibration of approach rather than hotness.
Neither am I a fan of the HB scale. You'll never find a group of guys to agree on a certain number in relations to one target. I've seen guys calls girls a 2 that I know were a good 7. I've seen guys call girls a 10 when they were more like a 7.5 to 8 rating. It's all relative to how you perceive the woman in question.


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I stick to my guns when I believe that the HB scale is another term, like marriage, that has taken on way more than it can handle. When we speak of "marriage," we speak of a spiritual union as well as a religious union. When we speak of the "HB scale," we have to figure out if we're talking about her VALUE to male sociaty or her self VALUE. Waaaaay too much going on there.
I believe that the only thing that any rating scale like this can possibly represent is a person's attractiveness to you, the rater. Nothing more and nothing less. Everyone has different preferences on both physical, mental, and all other levels.
Yes, I love debates on theory. Here we go!

Absolutely not. If you believe the only thing that any rating scale like this can possibly represent is a person's attractiveness to you, the rater, you have completely ruled calibration and her ability to be MORE OR LESS than just how attractive she is to you, the rater. Saying the scale can only represent something relative to the rater... well, you might as well be picking out meat at a market.

My entire personal theory and technique to PU is based on playing with people's own perception of self value, (in a positive way.) Forget just my theory. Unless you want to entirely debunk two generations of PUAs before you, you can't negate the HB scale's use for calibration, not just how attractive she is to you.

I'm not a ten. I'm a sharp girl sometimes, but I'm not a supermodel. I'm not going to be a 10 on any scale. However, because of my perception of my own value as a human being and in society, you have to game me like a ten or I'll chomp your face off. Dig?

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This one is tricky and I too have no real answer.

I went out with a girl that I considered a 9 at the time, although over time, due to issues and such, she went down a bit. At the time I thought she was a 9 though (based upon looks, she still is a 9 to me), another guy told me that he thought she was outright ugly.

Personal preference plays far too much of a role in not only the physical area (I'm really not a fan of blonde bimbos, but dear god I love the sexy punks), but also in the mental and social areas as well! A guy I work with expects girls/guys that he goes for to be able to discuss politics and dead french poets, whereas if she's into talking about politics, I'm gonna leave the room most likely, cause that's just not something I like to talk about in the least. I want a girl with some music knowledge and taste in the same genres as me, artistic, into philosophy, psychology, witty and that will bust my balls, which lots of guys really seem to dislike girls doing to them. Socially speaking, a guy may prefer a girl with 1,200 friends on facebook (most of which we all know she doesn't know, but for some reason this is alluring), whereas I'd rather have a girl that has a smaller group of solid friends.

I'm not saying that this rating system isn't a good idea, I think it's much more descriptive, but it's still gonna be based upon who's perspective it is coming from. That means a girl will be rated differently depending on whether I'm rating her, Zip is rating her, Roads is rating her, or we're attempting to rate her based upon how she perceives herself. At best, ANY system that gives people a number value, is going to be subjective, at worst, it will be utterly useless, while insulting, confusing and screwing with people's heads along the way.

I'm down for running with the PMS scale (hehehe), but I think it would be more effective to use a 1-10 scale for each area still, as it gives greater range for comparison and you can easily average numbers out to get an overall stat. If done based upon a 1-5 scale, then it would have to be done using the PM scale, as the PMS would add up to 15 and that's just lunacy as you can plainly see. :wink:

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I think the main problem with your idea is that it will only really work after you open. Since its hard to notice anything other than looks from well, looking :)
And in my view the only time the HB scale is needed is when opening, since opening a 10 is different to opening a 6.
Now, just because people here generally stop opening anything under a 8 over time is that looks are an instant summery of value. A hot girl is more valueable than a less attractive women not taking their intelligance into account (which you cant until you have opened). The reason guys will open high value girls more is because there are simply to many women to spend the time with every1 who is a HB6+ to work out if they have that killer personality your looking for.
However, your scale would work very well for when a women opens you (or a friend who after you gain PU skills finds you so much more attractive due to social proof, confidence etc.) But then again having this scale wouldnt affect how you game that person.

I think what i am trying to say is what does this scale achive other than just being an enchanced way to brag? Ofc, bragging is all well and good but like what has been mentioned above, perspective is everything. The other downside to bragging is that people will always exaggerate to seek the approval of others (which is stupid in my eyes since if i like a girl i dont give a shit what other people think, although, normally they think i am a lucky bastard :lol: )

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now this is getting complex! hahaha. I really didn't know what I expected - presenting an idea thats purpose was to overthrow a rating scale that has been in place and used for 10+ years.

but so far there are some good ideas.

@ Roads:

an assistant manager at McDonalds takes home ~26k from what I hear. For a single female in her early twenties, that is pretty damn good. I would have went in and gotten a vanilla shake with some free french fries!

I think you are on to something here with a social value.

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what I am trying to do with the physical/mental idea is so that when you sit down and talk to another member about it and ask a question, you can be like "she was really awesome person to talk to, but she was not very attractive for approach." huh. I see how it might even be possible to replace the physical attractiveness all together - because that does not really come into play if you are already involved with the sarge; you will make your choice other ways.

but then like Zip points out, a girl that values herself a 10 is going to be required to be treated like a 10. So saying she is physically (on the 1-5 scale) a 3, mentally a 4...you are still not gauging the scenario for criticism correctly. things will still be too mis-interpreted.

Every aspect of attractiveness will be subjective- mental, social, or physical. but that is what I am trying for. this way the person that is helping you (or reading your report) will get an idea of how YOU see HER overall rather than how hot she is. And now, yes, the great idea of how SHE sees HER.


Maybe attractiveness is going to be removed all together? I am thinking that a value base might even be better. After reading those inputs, I think that social value or self worth should be the basis of the "rating scale" with branches from that.

Although I am going to be really disappointed that we can't have the "PMS" name anymore. That would have been the key to this catching on! lol Roads

If you do a value scale, (for you @Madals) you are opening someone who appears a certain VALUE as apposed to someone who is sexy. Because me, personally, I don't open those women with really really short skirts and furry boots; grinding on everyone. Sure they have awesome bodies, a nice vagina that everyone gets to see, and good fashion - but what do their actions speak of them? How do they see themselves?

I like where this is going.

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It is practically impossible to create an accurate scale, it would have to take far too many variables in account. And because the scale will never be accurate, we might as well make it as simple as possible (Hence 1-10).

So, what do we need the scale for then? First of all, for comparison. Its way easier to say that the set had a HB6, HB7 and a HB9. Its also a way to name the girls, otherwise we'd be talking about Anna who wasn't that good looking, whos friend Jenna was ok, but still nont as good as Lisa. (So in a way, its just another abbreviation to help communication inside the community).

And last but not least a quick word about 10's.. guys, the next time you write about this set of tens you saw last night, think about the model or actress that looks the best in your eyes and ask yourself, if you gave the whole set yesterday tens.. what would she get? A 15? 16?


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Percived value is fine, and i agree the person you described isnt high value to me either. However, she IS high value to many people simply beacuse it is just another way of looking at her attractivness (physical).
Sure, a slight touch of her personality slips though by how she acts etc but fundermentally its still just a personal taste of women. You are probably more into the women in red dress with her hair curled drinking that martine? Rather than the half naked model with a pint in each hand.

What you gain from the way a person acts is what i would call the percived value. That is, what you value you them as. (PV for short).

PV would work in many ways, and would be more universal. a PV10 could be a women in a suit in a bently to 1 man, and a punk rocker smoking weed to another. You could make assumptions on what both of their personalitys are like by how they act (intelligant, advernureous etc etc) but you could also gauge their perception of themselves by how they act within their group or w/e.
However, the big problem is until you open them you are doing nothing more than ASSUME what value and qualities she has until you open her.
Now, i think the HB scale has already evolved into that. People find different things attractive by assumptions they make about the person. In such that style can make a person attractive or less attrative (just as smiling/posing would be attracitve to different people).

I dont think there is a need to make the scale more detailed, 0-10 has and will continue to work fine.

If i would suggest anything it would be a name change.
PV - percived value. This would be what YOU consider the target to be. Not ver important when you read my second point. But still would be personal to the individual, since the reason newbs find opening a HB10 hard is because they add so much value onto the target that they come off as needy.
The most important thing in regards on how to calibrate your approch would be what i would call the:
SPV- socially percived value. This would be what you would consider sociaty to value her as. This would be the most important because it would likly reflect how she values herself. Since a humans relatity is based upon feedback far more than self opinion. Now before you argue that "she could have confidence issues or w/e" this would be noticed by sociaty by the way she walks/talks and interacts with people.

SPV would also incorpirate things like intelligance, some1 in a nice car would have more value than some1 on the street. a beatuiful lady would have more value than your gran. etc etc.


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Percived value is fine, and i agree the person you described isnt high value to me either. However, she IS high value to many people simply beacuse it is just another way of looking at her attractivness (physical).
Sure, a slight touch of her personality slips though by how she acts etc but fundermentally its still just a personal taste of women. You are probably more into the women in red dress with her hair curled drinking that martine? Rather than the half naked model with a pint in each hand.


What you gain from the way a person acts is what i would call the percived value. That is, what you value you them as. (PV for short).

PV would work in many ways, and would be more universal. a PV10 could be a women in a suit in a bently to 1 man, and a punk rocker smoking weed to another. You could make assumptions on what both of their personalitys are like by how they act (intelligant, advernureous etc etc) but you could also gauge their perception of themselves by how they act within their group or w/e.
However, the big problem is until you open them you are doing nothing more than ASSUME what value and qualities she has until you open her.
Now, i think the HB scale has already evolved into that. People find different things attractive by assumptions they make about the person. In such that style can make a person attractive or less attrative (just as smiling/posing would be attracitve to different people).

I dont think there is a need to make the scale more detailed, 0-10 has and will continue to work fine.

If i would suggest anything it would be a name change.
PV - percived value. This would be what YOU consider the target to be. Not ver important when you read my second point. But still would be personal to the individual, since the reason newbs find opening a HB10 hard is because they add so much value onto the target that they come off as needy.
The most important thing in regards on how to calibrate your approch would be what i would call the:
SPV- socially percived value. This would be what you would consider sociaty to value her as. This would be the most important because it would likly reflect how she values herself. Since a humans relatity is based upon feedback far more than self opinion. Now before you argue that "she could have confidence issues or w/e" this would be noticed by sociaty by the way she walks/talks and interacts with people.

SPV would also incorpirate things like intelligance, some1 in a nice car would have more value than some1 on the street. a beatuiful lady would have more value than your gran. etc etc.


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I like this. You produced something really similar to what I began to focus this on. Yours might even actually be worded better ;)


"target" scale - overall points are ADDED from below.

sub ratings:

attractiveness - this is how you personally feel about her. This is all inclusive of physical, mental, and social attractiveness. Whatever your desire is, this is where it is rated. This number can change at whatever point in sarge (or relationship) you are in. meaning it is a sliding scale - and can change as your views of her does.

value - This is how she sees herself. Her self worth and social standing
this is a static number; it never changes.

I still want to go with 1-5 sub-scale. This way you can add them up and give the person an overall rating for their critiquing. A single 1-10 is too broad and will not give the mentor or advice giver any understanding of how to deal with this target.

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I'm just going to chime in my opinion on the HB scale in general.

I don't think there should be a numerical scale to judge HBs. Period. Not for bragging, and not even for calibrating your approach. In fact, in many instances "calibrating your approach" with external and superficial determinants such as a girl's hotness rating can fuck up your sarge. No joke. All you need to calibrate your approach is to judge how much attention she's getting from everyone in the vicinity, not through objectification.

And that's all any HB rating scale is to me: ego-based objectification. If we all started seeing each other and women as human beings, we wouldn't assign them with numbers. If we're attracted to a woman, we would just go along with that attraction we feel based on the quality of what we feel, not on any sort of quantification.

Whether or not you're basing a scale on looks or "mental attractiveness," you're still judging another human being based on some sort of S or R value, rather than seeing her for the human being she really is.

You are not your ripped abs. You are not your push-up bra. You are not your intelligence. You are not your school grades. You are the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world. I LOVE the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world, and that's why I'm in this game. You can't rate it on a scale. Watch Fight Club.


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