Me and my friend both been reading all this PUA stuff and want to practice it in daygame now. We usually hang together and I we don't know how to approach the girl if there are two of us, so it doesn't look like I am approaching and leaving my buddy alone or that we are both approaching at the same time (creepy). How do we pull this off correctly?

Thanks

u want to play off each other like good cop bad cop or what i do with my friend is i started the set and then he will come in after me. So it looks like i dont care any more and he get the attract of the girls back to u and him. they will like u because they dont under stand why u r not talking to them and mean while your friend is making his game. So just play off each other me and my boy got 4 girls today because we play off each other great.

good luck

Sorry, I couldn't understand what you are saying. Could someone explain in more detail, please?

You're right about approaching together being creepy, but you can leave your friend somewhere and go talk to her as long as he doesn't mind. To put it simply, her social conditioning isn't as strong when she is by herself and having your friend join you in the middle of your interaction will actually make her cautious about what she is feeling towards you. Even if you're making progress and he comes in before you get her number, she's gonna feel intimidated, or worse still, that you're only showing off now your friend has arrived. If it's one on one, keep it that way.

If she's in a group then he can come in after a few minutes and take care of the obstacles for you while you work your target. A simple way of identifying the target to him is for you to say they're cool but you're "not sure about this one". While he entertains the rest of the group you can work on her while their attention is diverted.

Okay, I'll try, but wouldn't it be weird, if the girls have already noticed us and then I alone approach them and my friend is just left there. Won't it seem strange to them?

Not really. If I'm with someone I'll always point him out, saying I need to get back to him in a sec but I wanna get her number so I can call her later and see what she's doing. It's only a big deal if you make it one, remember that.

I usually act occupied with something while my wing approaches, then after I've been in the set for a couple minutes he'll come over (you need to understand that it isn't always beneficial to have your wing enter, so he needs to be able to see if it's gonna help or hinder you). When I enter, we act as if we haven't seen each other in a while if they haven't seen us together 2 seconds ago (generally do this for night game, not as much for day game), or if they have (or it's day game), we'll generally just go, "Hey man, how's it going? Ladies, this is one of my best friends, he's fucking awesome!"

Now I introduce myself and this also gives my wing a chance to get their names a second time in case he forgot (I find this helpful, because I forget people's names a lot, but repetition fixes that; if you've got several friends, get them to introduce themselves one at a time, so that you get to hear each girl's name several times, which is especially helpful if you had a hard time understanding her the first or second time). We either talk about what I was up to before I came along, or what they were talking about and then I demonstrate that I'm a cool guy, which makes my wing a cool guy by association.

Now the girls know we're cool guys, we're just chilling with them and I figure out through body language or some sort of code, which one is his target, then I take the obstacle(s)/other targetable girl. We divide their attention and create two conversations, then he will number close, or we'll bother number close and part ways.

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