I thought of this the other day.

When its getting to the point when you kiss close, you're both having fun and laughing, you stop talking and look into her eyes, doing the triangular gazing thing, and (not too slowly or quickly) lean forward and tilt your head, going in for the kiss. If she moves away then give her a look like she's being weird, and then lean forwards again and whisper something to her. (Works better in a club, where you had the excuse to talk in their ear.)

I think this would work, but haven't field tested it yet.

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It works! This my usual method to Kiss Close. I haven't done the whisper in her ear thing, but good recovery from that akward pause. Of course, this requires very close proximity to your target, but works great in a comfort building situation when you two are sitting next to each other.

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Well yeah, I know the kiss part works, I that I thought of the recovery part. I think just knowing of that out would help with any confidence issues that might arise before going for the kiss.

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Make the advance.

If she doesn't let you advance. Blow it off and keep talking. Don't let an awkward silence fall into play.

You will blow her mind if you rebound in a way that suggests you don't even care and will try again later. 99% of guys turn into a bunch of babies when their advances are denied.

Some women will deny advances until their internal clocks go off that allow such advances. They're creating the illusion that they're in control for their own sake.

When in doubt, go for the kiss. Just go for it. Make sure it's an appropriate time to kiss, and I mean this very superficially and simply: make sure she's not in the middle of chomping on a burger or something. Girls respect a man that makes advances. There's a more romantic and sensible way to put it, but it's true.

On the verse side, you don't want to be the dude with rigid shoulders that's too afraid to advance. Most women will not do the advancing for you.

So when you go for it, you will get denied or not. If you get denied, keep trucking and try again.

I like this. If I get this far in my first proper sarge attempt on Saturday then I'll try it. One thing though, what would be some things you'd whisper? Some random C&F stuff or something situational or what?

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I think your best bet is to use the whispering as a strong way to pull her in. So yes, make it something situational, not C&F. If you give a strong pull, then another small push away, SHE might be the one leaning in for the kiss

Thanks bro As far as ways to pull her in I just thought maybe whispering something along the lines of "your eyes just drew me towards you, I couldn't resist" or something along them lines might work. Kinda the thing with LMR like "you've hijacked my brain" ya know. Though maybe not, as I said above I have yet to have a proper sarge so I lack experience using canned material let alone making my own stuff up
Although I guess that's what Mystery etc did eh lol

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