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Ok, I'm the biggest loser of all time
I had a good chance again to talk to that girl... she was eating alone in the dining room in a big table
I figured it would be a good chance to go and ask if I could sit there (I was gonna eat too). but once again I froze like a f'cking pussy and went to eat alone. Crying or Very sad
same questions in my mind, "what the hell should I say" etc. my head was totally empty of ideas. how can I get rid of this damn fear!!??
And are there any easily remembered "universal" openers that I could use in almost every situation (clubs, store, library, streets etc)??
There's also an approach rule. In Mystery Method he advises to use the "3 seconds rule". It's simple. If you see a target, you have around 3 seconds to approach without getting blocked, just like you did 2 times.
It's simple. Do you see the girl? 3s... APPROACH. Don't hesitate. Come up confident and smiling.
If you follow this rule, you won't even have time to figure out what to say, or what she's thinking. That's the biggest "pro" of this method.
The next time you see a girl, and like her. 3seconds.... APPROACH ok?
Even if you don't know what to say, this will help you to lose this lack of confidence you have. There's no need to worry.
I know it's difficult to say all those stuff like this, but look for some videos, see how those guys do, maybe it encourage you.
Remeber, you're just good as you wanna be. If you wanna be a PUA fight for it. Work a lot, overcome all your fears and shy. This will help you in any other areas of your life too!
So, I want you to use the 3 seconds rule. Having any problems? Try to use it with an old lady, who you knows you won't try to pick up. Be nice to woman, so you'll be nice to all woman.
Good Luck!