1. bullying
im still getting so much bullying i feel like shit by the end of the day and often end up stressy. acting like an alphas not working, i dont have any energy to make a good comeback most days and fightings too risky even if i would flatten them, there would be more after them.

2. meeting girls
im finding it difficult to get to know girls i already know and have already judged me and have heard so many dlv from there friends about me, and i dont see a real oppurtuinity to meet Pretty girls at my school that are older than me or i dont know yet. where can i meet new girls and stuff without other people interfearing?

3. front of the bus?
i always sit at the front of the bus somehow i dont think theres a chance of moving to the back, im pretty sure the guys would say oh why are you back here or w.e. and a few girls will object to me bieng back there. when i first arrived in the place i live half way through year 8 i just blanked out every 1 on the bus .. i have 2-3 mates on there though now but i met them outside of the bus. they howeever would not help me out and i doubt they wud sit next to me and one of them turned out to be a wanker trying to use me for food lmao.(i own a shop)

4. sounding stupid???
i dont know why by i seem to say some stupid stuff sometimes. im thinking it might be this whole masturbating dealie. i also talk slow and very deeply but i was thinking this is a good thing? perhaps a bit ott too slow though?

5. drinking..
ok ive started drinking 1-2 times a week in school and its started to get bad i always do it with a mate i can trust. its starting to come out a bit that i drink. it helps with talking to girls i already know that have already formed oppinions on me.

ok im gonna run some quick thoughts by you, the main bully gets very embarrassed when girls get mad at him etc.. hes v insicure, if i could make friends with a girl thats got a higher value than him i might be able to block him out?

i might try not masturbating for 2-3 weeks see if i smarten up a bit and dont have sex on my mind so much(kinda wierd as im 14)

its not just approach ansiety but the fact i know they will deffo reject me unless i show some serios skills in diffusing insults and making them laugh and im not up to it.

i cant think of other solutions atall sometimes i just feel like theres no point in sitting at the back of the bus then i remmember my social proof would sky rocket. (popular bus)

oh also i read through that article now i masturbate quite alot but ive started to realize every girl ive met ive wanted to have sex with her lol. even my mates gf i started talking to her a bit then i was like crap what am i doin


and just to lighten things up a bit i met a girl about hb7.5ish depending sometimes on the day she can look better . ive met her once and she ended up likein me so its good ..

oh and i hateee corseworkkkk ahhhhhhh!

i would also like to say thanks to any pua that has helped me so far and pre-thanks to any pua thats going to help me

before i start olie im gonna start by saying masturbating isnt the problem... everyone does it...

you can get through this olie. i used to be bullied then i took kickboxing... doesnt mean you have to fight these bullies but atleast you will feel more self confidence... bullies wont bully you if your body language is right... stand upright, head up, arms to your side... show no signs of defeat or fear... you dont have to say anything to them... they will see for themselves that there is no need to bully you when u use powerful body language... people will give u a whole lot of grief if your slouched and looking to the ground... when you are on the bus dont sit at the front... stand at the front and face the back of the bus... showing your vulnerable stomach, heart and face and show no fear...

as far as meeting girls you shouldnt make excuses for yourself and stop making assumptions on thier judgements... and i believe u do have AA because ur already thinking AFC that they will reject you before u even try... you just have to believe in yourself... read up on the posts we put up and put it to practise... the stuff really works... and again most importantly... believe in yourself!!!

and dont worry if u say stupid shit sometimes... if u deliver it with energy people will accept it... dont let them defeat you... you need to show the "i am king fucking ding-a-ling and i dont give a shit" attitude and people will be drawn to you...

so learn some good openers, negs, DHV, and all the tools to make u a PUA and believe u have what it takes to do it!!!

goodluck pal
Wolf.

I am going to start by saying, im 15, and almost in the same boat as you.


The only difference is the fact I don't get bullied becuase Im not afraid to say "Shut the fuck up nigger" Even if they are not black, best line to say.

He wont punch you, I promise that, I've never been in a fight in my life and I fucking yell at faggots all the time its simple, stand up tall, stare in their eyes.

To not get bullied, don't be afraid to bully back, once he sees you'll fuck him up mentally he doesn't bother with you.

The school and DLV for girls...i have the same problem, I made friends with a chick, started a one itis and now i use her for DHv, i hang on her and shit and all the girls see im a Girl-friendly. Hang on them, even if shes ugly.

Don't fucking drink, for christs sake, your 14, I have never drank but I drop pills at parties and shit, but drinking shows you can't deal with stress. Drinking shows your a lower valued bitch, and its not cool, anyone can drink.

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Bus and masturbation....


Masturbation is only going to help one thing, and this is me so im not sure about you. If I dont jerk off for a week I wont pop so many random boners.

The bus, sit in the fucking back, not the whole back, but where ever, I sit everywhere, whereever a seat is, and when some asshole says something i stand up and clearly say "Shut the fuck up and sit down somewhere else." or a simple "No bitch"

Its not hard man, you know more than these fuckers do, and if you think they can still over power you, you dont deserve to know this. [/u]

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Ok bullying wise I had to deal with that crap until I was a senior in high school. The things that changed in three years, my height and my social status. I went from 5'8" to 6'2" and socially my freshmen year I was incompetent. I went to school and played playstation that was my life. My senior year I forced myself out of my shell and in four months had gotten further with a girl than all my dorky ass friends who refused to change their ways. I hope you catch my drift.

Now women wise, I adapted my ways which may or may not have helped my situation. I wrote romantic poetry, I read a lot more, and actually listened. This eventually got me hooked up with my hb9 that gave me oneitis for three years. THREE YEARS! For women you all ready know you are kind of screwed, you have make it seem like you have taken on a huge change. Read Robert Greenes book Seduction, it kind of outlines what you should do.

the bullying thing I dealt with all in middle school, I recently began training mma doing muay thai, jiu jitsu, and a bunch of other shit, but remember the loudest one in the bunch is always the biggest pussy there is. Do not be that guy, I can fight, I know this; but I do not use that to my advantage in any way. If you do decide to train dont be acting all billy badass, as no one finds that attractive. Just because you can fight dont pick a fight, thats just stupid; there is absolutely no reason to have a bad reputation and get suspended or like it is at my school now expelled for a fight. If it resorts to a fight and you are physically picked on then hey do what youve gotta do and lay em out cold.

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Forget Asian martial arts idea, it wont help you at all. Box is what you need, after a year of serious practicing you will be able to stand up for yourself, also start weight lifting, but be sure that you rest and eat A LOT.

Showing confident body language will not help you if you don't have something to back it up. It might work with the people that don't know you, but the ones that bully you know that you are weak so the only thing here is become stronger. Don't seek easy ways out, work for sucess

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You do realise boxers get the shit knocked into them by MMA dudes all the time right?

I agree with weight lifting.

You will be suprised how much body laungauge will help you dude. It's about projecting confidence, I was in the EXACT same rut till I was 15-16, I'm now the schools local "giggalo" -tounge in cheek-. simply because I changed my body laungage, projected a bit more confidence and as a result my Social life, rocketed.

I would recomend some MA training just find a non BS school, one of those proper schools. You should leave knuckles bleeding and joints aching from locks if you wnat to learn how to fight properly.

As long as it is not a "Sport" MA. MMA is ok however in the fact that it does include about 65% of all the phases and situations in a physical confrontation.

good luck.

LOL

Have any Statistics, evidence?
It would be really fun to see

LMAO

Boxers have nothing on MMA Fighters. Boxing is one, yes only one aspect of fighting, and that aspect is punching. In MMA you must focus on defending a takedown, a kick, a punch, a clinch, a knee, etc. Why do you think so many boxers are switching from boxing into MMA. You will see that MMA fighters dominate Boxers when Anderson Silva beats Jones Jr. at his own game.

If a boxer were to compete in MMA without any cross-training there is no way he could succeed. . Granted boxers are great strikers but as in mma strikers only do well when they learn a good sprawl against the takedown (think Chuck Lidell). A sprawl is not part of a pure boxer's repertoire so therefore, in mma, the boxer's skill set is not well-rounded and will result in him getting grounded and pounded, submitted, or just put to sleep.

A Muay Thai fighter would destroy a boxer, the versatility of strikes would overwhelm the boxer and knock him out. also the thai clinch would also put a boxer to sleep, with a couple of knees. take for instance the fights with Anderson silva vs Rich Franklin, Silva has execellent muay thai, Franklin training in just boxing for his stand up. Franklin got knocked out in both fights, he took a barrage of kicks punches knees and had to have reconstructive surgery to repair his nose. With that there is absolutely no way a boxer could even hang with an MMA Fighter.

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MMA martial artists are the best in the world! And Muay Thai is awesome! I personally think its the best martial arts! or like Bruce Lee would say, Asian kickboxing!

Boxing is a sport, but without the use of the legs.. They’d get owned fast! especially if they get wrestled to the ground, then the boxers are useless. One person put it really good

Boxing and any martial arts is great, but you need to go outside it and gain understanding from all around and put it in you! Any martial art by its own isn’t enough. Hence why you have these MMA fighters which are tough as hell! You don't want to come up against one of them!

Either way when it comes to fighting, don't do it!

Below is a video MMA vs Boxing.



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As far as MMA goes, what would be the best for someone to learn and for what reason?

NO NO NO
Saying that will get you shot where im from, especially if your not a minority
Do people really do that? wtf? I just cant see someone telling me to "Shut the fuck up nigger" without me introducing their face to my fists

And MMA is the sh!t. Unlike karate its practical in real life situations

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