So I'm in college and I feel like a lot of the information out there in the community doesn't apply as much to me for approaching girls. There is this one girl who I am currently interested in, and based on iois i think is sort of interested in me too. I'm thinking of asking her to hang out sometime but I am not sure which is the best way to do this. I am in a few of her classes, so I am thinking about just going up to her and sitting down before class starts real quickly. I feel like I should just say something like, how was your weekend? and hey what do you have going on this weekend. Then I could say something like, we should get together and watch a movie at my place one of these nights and order some pizza or something. That way if she says yes, great and if she says shes busy, I will be able to tell whether she is interested based on whether she tries to come up with another time. Does this sound like a pretty good way to approach the situation? My biggest concern is I don't want her to see me as just a friend. I'm pretty sure she has a boyfriend and we've gotten together before in order to study and sat around talking until really early in the morning. But I feel like I shouldnt mention school work again to avoid the friends thing. How do I make her know I'm interested while watching a movie without coming across too strong without potential iois? Will the arm around her and such do the trick? Also, pay for the pizza or make her pay too? Thanks for the help!

I always like to be original whenever possible. EVERYONE says "how was your weekend?" .....I mean every motherfucker out there says that. Also, check your answering machine, does it say " please leave a message after the beep...." For the love of God.

hey dude, wat ur saying is what a typical guy hu is too scared tu get rid of his lac of confidence says

So I'm in college and I feel like a lot of the information out there in the community doesn't apply as much to me for approaching girls

look dude, all the methods only are able to sell coz they r universally succesful and thats y all of us r here, tu help each other on improving on these techniques.

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Professor, I would do the following:

Walk into the class and sit next to her. As implied by your post, it seems that this would, if you don't already sit next to her all the time, it would not appear strange to her if you did so. Strike up a conversation with her by immediately talking about something cool you did over the weekend or the previous night, such as, "yeah, so I went rock climbing this weekend on private property and some crazy redneck chased us off with a shotgun" or "I saw this kickass movie this weekend that reminded me of you because..." The purpose of this is threefold: 1) it demonstrates confidence and initiative in you for immediately provided an interesting point of conversation, 2) it's amusing and entertaining, character qualities girls look for in every guy, and 3) it intuits her interests and hobbies, knowing which will give you ideas to feed on when asking her to hang out in the future. E.g. if you talk about rock climbing and she jumps in and says, "Oh! I love rock climbing!" or "I love that movie!" or whatever it is you talk about, it allows for her to open up to you in a much better way than simply you asking her, "So... what's your favorite movie." That's AFC and you're better than that. After you acquire segue into a topic of her interests and/or hobbies, suggest casually that you and she get together sometime and do that said interest or hobby. This works almost all of the time because you won't be sounding like a sex-crazed creep nor will you sound like you just want a platonic relationship. All the while, make physical contact with her like playful slaps on the shoulder or resting your hand on her arm while you work through the climax of the story you're telling her, and be very dynamic with your facial expressions. I'm a huge believer in dynamic facial expressions. If you convey through facial expressions a full spectrum of emotions, girls will love it and you will get great responses. Also, use her name often when you speak to her. Everyone's favorite word is their own name. Now, regarding her boyfriend, does he go to school with you guys or is he an LDR?