Thanks Chief, Being new, I couldn't get every word of it..
I will look for the meanings on the post and leave doubts here also so that if I don't find it in the earlier posts - I know where to look at

didn't pass the congruence test - ? not sure what is that.

next her ??

BT and close --??

...in the mean while I am looking around for the meanings..

I believe I am in a similar situation that you used to be, as a freshman (15) in high school, though a bit naturally better off than you made it sound. But anyway, in terms of material, what do you think are the best resources for natural game, as well as what you think are the best resources for developing a strong inner game?

I wish this book were available in ebook form so more people could have an opportunity to read this. The Zen of Meeting Women offers some of the best Inner Game teachings I've ever seen in the community. The concepts may be difficult to grasp at first, especially if you aren't used to having a very open mind about things, but this text sets you on a very effective path to becoming a very happy and centered natural at pickup.

Reading this book alone will not set you on a fast track path to becoming a total master at pickup, however. People should study Mystery's M3 model for more specific steps, but you should always see the Outer Game through the eyes of your Inner Game. I think The Zen of Meeting Women can give you some of the best pairs of eyes a PUA can have.

This book does offer a suggested yet limited step-by-step Outer Game model, though. If you are just interested in becoming a well-centered individual who's a pretty good PUA, this book is perfect. This book alone cannot suffice as "advanced material," but it's all you'll ever actually need for practicality's sake. For PUAs seeking MORE...for PUAs seeking glory and becoming one of the best... this teachings in this book are a necessary, yet unfortunately overlooked, foundation for success.

I would recommend this text to anyone and everyone. Top marks.

Hopefully there will be a sequel that goes deep into specifics about Night Game and Set Theory. That should be an interesting and useful read.

Concerning #2. For the majority of human history, males have set the laws of society. Even back then, humans were monogamous. Wouldn't this monogamy be an evolutionary adaptation (of thought) much like PUA? Just because our hardwiring is still similar to other primates who do not form pair groups, isn't that part of what helped us progress to the level we are at: the forming of these pairs, raising of young, etc.

I find this interesting and your knowledgeable enough to talk about it.

Is learning NLP worth it? I got some stuff on SS and all but NLP seems too hard, and not worth it. So is it?

Also, im having some trouble, I need to get out and talk to more women. I can open i got some good ones, I've got ESP, spells routine, bank robber one, I've got the cube, Ring routine and all that shit.

But when it comes down to it, I can't hold up 90% of the conversation.

Wasup PUAs,
I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. I know I did! I was hanging out with some members from the group when all of a sudden this overweight blonde bursts in our scene at In-N-Out and opens our set saying something about her funny shirt...
Oh! did I mention that I got this great leather jacket from Calvin Klein at the outlet in Gilroy? Funny story, really. Y'see, it was originally $400 but my mothher miraculously haggled it down to a quarter of the price. Let me tell you the secret to how she did it...
but before I tell you, listen to this amazing news! The presentation of the Wild Chief Method went smoothly and the last @ meeting went great. A new guy was there, actually. Wondering who it is?
Wow, that's an interesting shirt you're wearing. The girl that opened us at In-N-Out was wearing this funny shirt and she just approaches us guys, obviously drunk, saying "WHO LOVES MY SHIRT?" HAHA so I put my bigass tophat on her head and I pulled it down over her face LOL.

The above is an example of "Multiple Threading" as described in VAH aka MM. You can see some obvious advantages to doing it: it builds suspense and leaves the target thinking that the two of you have a LOT to talk about (stronger rapport).

Should you always multiple thread? NO. That's called Attention Defecit Disorder (and if you DO have ADD this technique should be a LOT easier for you so you're at an advantage). For most of us guys, constant multiple threading can be overbearing and frankly quite a draining task.

Multiple threading consistently lacks closure for a build-up of suspense, but should you be doing this all the time? You actually don't have to do this. Mix up your multiple threading with other conversational strategies.

I was at a coffee shop with Vain earlier tonight and number-closed this HOT blonde sophomore from Panama, so I was PUMPED. Afterward, we sat outside next to this girl I knew. With my high energy it was easy to get into a talkative state. I wasn't multiple threading per say, but I did find myself naturally implementing a certain conversational strategy I read about several years ago.

Here's the strategy (I tried to find a source for this but many PUAs have talked about this and not one can take credit): Break up any sentence she says into separate elements. "I love it when my friends send me mail." From here, you can ask her about 1) things she loves, 2) her friends, 3) her mail, or talk about 4) things YOU love, 5) your friends, 6) your mail. Options 1-3 can get HER talking more, and 4-6 gives you opportunities to tell DHV stories. Also, you don't have to rely on what SHE says. You can break down any sentence YOU say to lead into different threads. You can either wait until she reaches some sort of closure in what she has to say or you can actually conclude what you're saying before moving onto the next topic (which you already have in mind), OR you can multiple thread. Using this strategy, you will NEVER run out of things to talk about until YOU CHOOSE to end the interaction. Use calibration to determine whether you should get her talking more about herself or if you should DHV.

Combine and balance this skill with your multiple threading for optimal effects. Every PUA is unique, so find your own special mix that works best for you.

Rock,
-Chief

Anyway you can help me? I also am trying to get over a major one itis...

Thanks

Chief,

I see you have extensive knowledge of the available DVDs on the market. I went ahead and bought these in the end: is-this-a-good-deal-vt20020.html

What order would you recommend watching them in? There are so many I don't know where to start, and it's about 250 hours of video!!!

Thanks

If you find that you are UNABLE to go fuck ten other women, you should finally understand that the reason behind your oneitis is from having a scarcity mentality, therefore you need to just improve your skill.

I had to chime in and say how profound this is to me Chief. I appreciate you mentioning it and it really puts things into perspective. Respect.

Are you implying there are no special women?

First off, be sure to skim through everything to make sure that those products work. There are a lot of scammers out there that sell you blank CDs.

It really doesn't matter which order you view them in, as long as you watch whatever you want to learn from.

However, I would start with David Deangelo's Advanced Series. I think his Advanced Series lays the basic groundwork of knowledge you'll need to develop Inner Game. To maximize the efficiency of your learning curve, I think you should switch back and forth between Inner Game related programs and Outer Game related programs to balance out mental and practical growth. So, for example, you could watch Mehow's Infield Exposed program after you watch the Advanced Series. Then, Blueprint. Then, Mind of Mystery, and so on and so forth.

Whenever you feel like taking a "break" from serious stuff, pop in the Jeffy Show. It's hilarious! And, even though it's one of the more comedic PUA programs out there, I learned the most important lesson in pickup I've ever learned from that program than from any other one: the game is all about having FUN. Save the Jeffy Show for a little later and reward yourself with it after you get some success in-field.

Really take your time with these products, though, and don't rush through them. Each and every one of them has something special to offer and it may take you a long time to really internalize everything there.

Also, you're definitely right about it taking a long time to internalise, it's going to talk about 3 months just to watch these once each.

3. Um... lol I've never looked through the eyes of a white man before, so I have nothing to compare to.