So hey guys.

I've been dating someone for the last month. I haven't been brushing up on approaches so I decided to try one tonight.

Here was my case. I choked up. Major difference from one month ago. I can make an approach with relative ease. I'm an attractive and young looking adult (I'm actually 31). I am fit. I just bought a motorcycle and ride it and I carry my helmet with me wherever I go.

For whatever reason, I find it easy to approach and the girls are generally responsive. Tonight, the girl I talked to was very attractive. I went up and asked her (hey, is your name ...). She stopped, was receptive. She looked at my helmet. She didn't leave and was expecting a conversation.

I am actually fairly confident this will be the case for most approaches. If not, well that's ok. But the fact was I didn't carry on the conversation. A month ago, I was on fire. I don't know where that went, but i'm not too angry about it either.

My thing: I do have a girl now. So I also have to be careful I am just talking. But I wanted to see how far I could push it and how receptive they would be.

What can I do to build up that confidence to the point where I can carry on a cohesive, fast talking and interesting conversation again? I am 100% sure I could have closed this. This was a much more attractive girl than usual.

Let the advice begin!

Best advice I can give for that confidence your looking for is practice. Some of my techniques back in the day was recording myself via a webcam. You practice conversation scenarios. I also would practice in the car driving... People would probably see me and think I was just some crazy dude , but practicing your conversation rhetoric is huge...

You also can practice this by starting conversations with any strangers... The key to good conversation is progression and learning how to progress from one thing to another while keeping the other person engaged. Just note depending on the venue you want to use a false time constraint or end your conversations typically 1- 2 minutes , unless you are hitting it off with the person. You got to be the judge, but don't ever overstay your welcome go to the next set.

Last, if you haven't studied body language make sure you do soo.... It's huge....