Hello guys. I am not new to pick up by any means , but just now got out of a relationship and I am getting back into the game.

First, I ended up reconnecting with a girl I haven't seen for 6 years. We worked together at the time and the thing that separates an easy lay is she is 120 miles away. Anyhow , to make a long story short we started texting and talking on the phone regularly for the last 6 weeks. Attraction and comfort was established (Had her masturbating on the phone , sending vids etc)

Recently though I got drunk one night and send her some drunk texts confessing my undying love for her (Which I didn't mean). I also told her I didn't want to talk to her or see her (We were planning a meet up in September sometime) Anyhow I was kinda mean in the texts and the next day she was cold and didn't say shit. Me being annoyed I went out that night and went to a club and gamed up a bachelorett party.. In my drunked stuper later that I night I uploaded a pic with me and this HB 9 brunette on Facebook.

The next morning I awoke still no texts from my friend. Fast forward three more days and still none. I then did the most AFC thing you can do and sent her one of those I'm sorry texts for being drunk (Not mentioning my Saturday night because this wasn't spoken of). Still no reply and it was Monday and I sent the following email to her.

EMAIL POSTED: I'm not sure if you blocked my number or are just routinely ignoring me. However, I did want the opportunity to explain myself last Friday. And before it's a moot point I'd figure I just get you a brief synopsis now so we can both quit wasting our time. Anyhow, I'm sorry for being so angry Friday towards you. One of my friends passed away Friday and it really threw me through a loop and in retrospect I feel I may have taken that out on you a bit. Add that with deciding to drink... Fundamentally making things worse. Anyhow, just wanted to say my peace before saying audios. Take care dude , no hard feelings ☺


Anyhow, It seems as though she is done , but can't just communicate at all or say fuck off? Or you think shes just ignoring me to eventually pop back in two weeks and pretend like nothing bugged her? I'm sorry for the lack of details if I missed any. At this point I'm thinking of just freezing her out and if she does eventually respond to act like nothing even happened and also reply with a "Whos this?"

You're ghosted. It's over. She's moved on, so should you. She simply when't to the next dude blowing up her phone. You're not the only one she's sending those tits to. Find the NEXT bridesmaid.

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Sounds about right. Thanks

lol. You said that after not seeing/kissing this girl in six years?

So you went from professing your undying love to an angry text.

If a woman did this to me I'd block her for being crazy.


OMG! A girl you haven't kissed or seen in six years didn't get back to you in three days. PANIC! PANIC!


Jesus christ, man, get your shit together.




Classic case of a man who simply is unable to control his emotions. When I say the main cause of women "nexting" men is because of them being emotionally-uncentered, I'm not kidding.

The thing is, the OP's behavior is the common behavior among men.



It's over.

Move on. Take a sticky note and write this on it:

"Is this text too emotional? Am I over contacting this woman?"

Then stick it to your phone until you learn to control emotion.

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LOL I agree entirely dude.

Thing is I was talking to her an average of 1 - 2 hours a day. The attraction was there , but i should've waited until I was closer to the date so I could fuck close it. Instead the attraction got expired and i went to nice guy emo on her. Long story short she knew i was a PUA and had vids across the net and seen pics and shit. So I had to play this nice guy shit to her the entire time nearly. Really horrible process. Add that with Nostalgia of not being able to fuck her back in the day due to being a AFC and being engaged. The thrill of nostalgia was was there. Lost my cool.

Anyhow, back in my zone and wrote her off. I'm sure she will text when shes bored eventually, but either way shes written off.

I'd just play it cool. You havent talked to this chick in 6 years and all of the sudden you're confessing your love for her. If you want to pursue something I'd not contact her first for at least 2-3 weeks then maybe try sending her a funny pic that relates to an inside joke you guys have. The slim chance she responds just play it from there, don't bring up what happened and slowly start gaming her. If it were me I would just move on though. She lives 3 hours away so best case scenario you guys start getting close again and you drive 6 hours just for a quick fuck. Not worth dude.

Exactly. I'll be up in her home town sometime in October for work. I'll send 1 message then. Course I think She'll be afraid of retaliaion we'll see though. Either way the word Next is solid. Currently gaming three diff chicks that actually offer value aren't trust fund babies