So I met this girl at an annual heritage fesival last year this time. Seemed to really hit it off, made plans to go out (even though we were drinking) for the upcoming weekend. I text her the next day trying to follow through with those plans to see if she was down to go out and she seems all about it. Long story short it's the day before we were supposed to go out and she bailed and we never really talked since.
One year later, Saturday 7/29th guess who I run into... We start talking again just catching up. She's still single as I am too. She said she bailed last year because she said she "was freaked out". I'm assuming because I asked her out right away but I stated I was trying to do something nice etc. Regardless, we hit it off again and said she'd be down to go out so we made tipsy plans (again) to go out Friday. Gave each other hug and went our own way rest of the night ... and this the texting convo so far. (Appreciate those who've read this far)

Sunday
Me-Hey how was the rest of your night?-7:36pm
Her-Hey, it was good. I felt awful today though. How about yours?-8:50pm
Me-It was fun, went out for a little afterwards. Yeah I didn't feel great earlier but I'm feeling better now -9:30pm
Her-Did you do anything today-9:32pm
Me-Just took my nephews out for ice cream and ran some small errands before I had to go to work. How about yourself?-9:51pm
Her-Are you at work right now ? I hung out by the pool for a little and I'm watching game of thrones.-9:58pm
Me-I'll be watching it when I get home, cannot wait lol. Yeah I'm working until midnight 10:04pm
Her-It was so good!! 10:10pm

No texting Monday.

Today

Me-Hi how's your week going so far? 2:15pm
Her-Hi it's been busy. How about yours? 2:23pm
Me-Yeah same. Just trying to finish this condo as soon as possible so I can move out of my parents lol 2:32pm
Her-When did you get a condo?? 2:38pm
Me-I bought it around Christmas time. I'm just about finished remodeling the entire thing 2:48pm
Her- Oh nice. - "4:04pm


Reason why I showed the texting is to get your opinions if you think it's pointless for me to try reaching out to her. i don't want too ask her out and "freak her out" again. What are your thoughts? Much appreciated

You're not texting with a purpose. I see nothing here that makes sure that you're reinforcing attraction or making plans. You're not at risk of freaking her out. You're at risk of making her think you're boring.

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I hear you on that, I just didn't wanna overdue it but since you mentioned it I'm really not accomplishing anything.

You can't be afraid of pushing her boundaries. That's what separates success and failure in seduction. An invite to your new place would have been so simple. Teasing her about being sick the next day should be automatic. Pay attention to what she gives you and take your time with each response by saying, "what does this text do for me?". Read R.C's guide on texting. It'll help.

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