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 Post subject: All or nothing
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 3:49 am 
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Howdy,
A little about myself, I am 24 years old, very active and athletic, decently attractive and have a lot going on in life. Tend to be, introverted when meeting new people. All my past girlfriends were madly in love but I didn't feel the same so the relationship ended. Why I am on this website is because, after highschool the pool of attractive women dwindled and back then it was much easier to get females(perhaps lack of 3rd wave feminism?) So I am finding it extremely difficult to find women my age or younger to date. I feel this "way of life" is the only way I will be able to adapt to this strange world. I have listened to Neil Strauss "the game" Audiobook, some pickup lines, and a few other things. My main goal is to find someone to settle down with and start a family. But with the lack of skills, and places to find it seems nearly impossible. There have been a lot of missed opportunities because I was too afraid to say anything. So, If yall could show me the ropes or point me in the right direction :)


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 Post subject: Re: All or nothing
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 4:31 am 
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What's the population of your city? Find out where the best venues are. If you are looking for a wife, be careful though. You don't want to get into a long-term relationship with a girl who is addicted to parties.

Take advantage of those opportunities. Get better at day game, your options will increase and also the location in which you can find and talk to girls. Remember:

It doesn't matter whether a move works or not - be a guy that makes moves.


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 Post subject: Re: All or nothing
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 8:43 am 
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There have been a lot of missed opportunities because I was too afraid to say anything.
Simply stop being afraid. I know thats easier said than done but it doesnt make it any less true. Fear in our day and age is mostly and illusion. A product of human evolution that has not adapted to our current way of life. We now fear things because we dont want to experience mental pain or discomfort instead of being afraid of a huge sabretooth tiger jumping out of the woods and killing our caveman family.

What i am trying to say is that you will eventually need to force yourself to move an inch out of your comfort zone even though it will probably be intimidating at first. Then when you see that there really are no tigers around, you'll be able to move further and further until your fear has no control over you. It will take effort but you will get there if you take action or as Cobra puts it - make moves.

There is no magic pill to this stuff, there is only knowledge and action based on that knowledge. Do both and you will be just fine. Remember: F.E.A.R. - False Emotions Appearing Real


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 Post subject: Re: All or nothing
PostPosted: Thu Jun 29, 2017 10:05 am 
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Trust me, don't look for a wife, best way to be disappointed

Look for fun, look for cool dates, then maaaybe relationships, and then see from there how it's going

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 Post subject: Re: All or nothing
PostPosted: Thu Jun 29, 2017 12:41 pm 
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Howdy,
My main goal is to find someone to settle down with and start a family.
This is not what game or pick up is for.


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 Post subject: Re: All or nothing
PostPosted: Thu Jun 29, 2017 2:45 pm 
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F.E.A.R. - False Emotions Appearing Real
I like E more as evidence but emotions work too.
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Trust me, don't look for a wife, best way to be disappointed

Look for fun, look for cool dates, then maaaybe relationships, and then see from there how it's going
YEs! I'll never forget this one smokin blonde girl I tried to pick up years ago I asked her how she got engaged and said she met this guy at a dance club and they just would go out have fun every now and then and that led them to marriage. She then suggested I go to BSF lol
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Howdy,
My main goal is to find someone to settle down with and start a family.
This is not what game or pick up is for.
That's not true, pickup is for whatever he directs it to be for! The only thing is you must keep the previous point in front of the second one.


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 Post subject: Re: All or nothing
PostPosted: Sat Jul 01, 2017 3:32 am 
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Howdy,
My main goal is to find someone to settle down with and start a family.
This is not what game or pick up is for.
Wrong. Learning game will improve all areas of your life.

Starting a family starts with approaching a girl.


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 Post subject: Re: All or nothing
PostPosted: Sat Jul 01, 2017 4:17 am 
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Howdy, My main goal is to find someone to settle down with and start a family.

You're fucked, then.

Approach women, and ask these questions to yourself:

1. Does she make me smile?
2. Does she turn me on?

That's it.

Relationships happen organically, not through pre-set agendas. I will run away from any woman who approaches me this way.

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