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blackinak
PostPosted: Sun Jun 25, 2017 3:37 am 
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So when you meet a girl and shes down to hang out. Where are some good places for a first date to break all that ice that isnt Lame or expensive. I dont want to take women out to eat it turns into an awkward interview. Is going for a walk or chillin outdoors the best bet?
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oceanx
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Take her along on your errands, have her over, meet in the park, whatever. Invite her into your life as you would be living it otherwise. They are another human being. She doesn't have to impress you and you don't have to impress her.

The key is you had sparks together and you both want to see where it leads. So do that.
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Take her along on your errands, have her over, meet in the park, whatever. Invite her into your life as you would be living it otherwise. They are another human being. She doesn't have to impress you and you don't have to impress her.

The key is you had sparks together and you both want to see where it leads. So do that.
Gotta disagree. The purpose of dating is sex,so a date should be set with the goal of ending in porking. Drinks, at a bar near your place

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I agree, the bar is cool. The bar or the suggestions listed including having her over are with the intent of having her over. It's about the guy and the girl spending time together to get closer. Ultimately that's all either of them want, unless the girl is just looking for a free meal or free entertainment or whatever.


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When you first start entertaining the idea of taking a girl out it is about YOU. You should be taking her out to see if she is a good fit for your lifestyle therefore you should be taking out to do something with you that YOU like to do. For example; if you like CHINESE food take out her for Chinese food; if you like wonder woman, take her out to see wonder woman. If you like walks in the park take her out for a walk in the park. Do something that you would do without her anyway, just bring her along with you this time.

So, if you wouldn't take yourself out to a fancy dinner and spend 200 bucks, do not take some girl out to a fancy dinner and spend it. It's not about impressing her or overly appealing to her needs in the beginning. Those things will come later on as the girl earns it. Nothing is owed or earned in the beginning other than good company, good vibes, and a good time.

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Nothing is owed or earned in the beginning other than good company, good vibes, and a good time.
I agree.
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When you first start entertaining the idea of taking a girl out it is about YOU. You should be taking her out to see if she is a good fit for your lifestyle therefore you should be taking out to do something with you that YOU like to do. For example; if you like CHINESE food take out her for Chinese food; if you like wonder woman, take her out to see wonder woman. If you like walks in the park take her out for a walk in the park. Do something that you would do without her anyway, just bring her along with you this time.

So, if you wouldn't take yourself out to a fancy dinner and spend 200 bucks, do not take some girl out to a fancy dinner and spend it. It's not about impressing her or overly appealing to her needs in the beginning. Those things will come later on as the girl earns it. Nothing is owed or earned in the beginning other than good company, good vibes, and a good time.

i really like that idea. thanks alot!
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