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 Post subject: neg/push too much
PostPosted: Sat Jun 24, 2017 7:01 pm 
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Hallo guys,
I met a girl 2 days ago in a festival, and it went really well. We flirt, escalated kino, etc. We didn't kiss because all her friends were there and apparently she is texting with someone else but she told me isn't something serious.

Anw the thing is a got her number and I texted her today. I send her a 1. message being playful and sweet, with a little neg on the message. She answered 15 minutes later, she was being also playfull, used smiley faces and all that stuff.

But then in my second message, i think I was too cocky and I I have overdone it.

She still didn't answer (after 6 Hours) and i am not sure what to do.

Should i send a second message and try saving it (e.g What i wanted to say is that i liked your energy),
or don't say anything and send her another message in 1 or 2 days starting the conversation from the beginning?

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 Post subject: Re: neg/push too much
PostPosted: Sun Jun 25, 2017 1:24 am 
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Hallo guys,
apparently she is texting with someone else but she told me isn't something serious.
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Either Really good or really bad depending on what you want.

What were the exact texts? Never double text. Especially if she doesn't answer back. The 1 or two days method is pretty solid but try to switch it up by calling her instead. She may be busy or perhaps expecting more from you. Next time neg her a bit and follow it up by proposing a date.

What type of date? Well what is she into, what type of rapport have you built on her. Is there something that came up when you two were flirting that she likes i.e. (idk hiking,maybe LARP'ing) if there is propose it next time

Why is this?

I usually will only text a woman to either A) Build Rapport or B) set up a meet. If your trying to get this girl on a more physical level(Which i assume) get her out.

Cause when shes out on a date and she ignores you, you don't have to wait a day or two to fix the problem.

just my bit


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 Post subject: Re: neg/push too much
PostPosted: Sun Jun 25, 2017 1:40 am 
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What to do would depend on what you said. It may or may not be a big deal. It may or may not have elicited a response. What did you say that was so cocky?

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 Post subject: Re: neg/push too much
PostPosted: Sun Jun 25, 2017 1:45 am 
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Anyone else hate when someone uses the phrase "in talking to someone" like this girl did? Either you're single or you're not, fucking pick a side.

Anyways people have lives, jobs, families etc. you have no idea why she didn't respond so don't get all creepy about it. Instead, go find more girls to occupy your time. And never text or call a woman unless it is to arrange a date.

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 Post subject: Re: neg/push too much
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 12:52 pm 
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How would we know what you should say if you dont provide the conversation, Einstein? :)


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 Post subject: Re: neg/push too much
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 6:48 pm 
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Include your messages if you want some good feedback.


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 Post subject: Re: neg/push too much
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2017 6:59 pm 
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she is texting with someone else but she told me isn't something serious.
So basically you're trying to figure out a way to say " Hey, I know you're probably still texting that guy you were texting when we met, but im better.. Even though I couldn't kiss you because he was on your mind. Please respond to me. It's been 6 hours and nothing yet. "

If you're going to send a second text, do it 24 hours later minimum; and make no mention of what happen prior. Start a whole new thread and be normal this time around. No need to read from an internet script. The key is to get her out and escalate; not get cute reactions so you can feel good through text.

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