So, i work at this Car wash

One day these hb10 show up smiling when they came through the tunnel. I dry there car off and seeing that there gorgeous approach the drivers side and tell them to roll down the window

Me:Do I know you ladies
hb1:i dont know do you?
Me:Where are you from?
hb2:Shes from Deep River
hb1:Shes from washington.
(Im from Washington so i make the connect)
Me:no shit, what part
hb2:(rapport)
Me:Crazy, I'm from puyallup
Hb1:Whats your name?(IOI)
I tell her my name and notice they're smoking in the car. I ask for a ciggarette and after a little more chatting get hb1's number she says she'll smoke me out later.

Later that night she flakes but the next day hits me up apologizing . I say its cool i ended up smoking anyway. Then i make the mistake of asking her what her schedule looks like and get no reply.

I end up running into them not two days later and she mssg's me right after asking when i get off. I tell her and she invites me to her place. We're their for a good 15 minutes and i'm doing heavy kino, palm reading, the works. I get her to kiss my cheeck but the whole time her body language isnt giving in. Eventually she says she's has to go sell weed and i come along. She picks up her friend hb2 and we spend the whole time talking about washington. I make a point to not show hb1 any attention. i smoke a bit and bid them farewell from the back of hb1's suv. (Shaking there hands like an AFC). Hb1 says shes sorry that we didnt really do any chilling and again i follow the law of least effort.

Soooo, I wait about 3 days and mssg her.

me:Water you doing thursday
her:I have the day off as far as i know
me:Great!Wanna chill and not sell weed lol.

Then nothing. That was a day ago.
Im sitting on this and wondering where I went wrong and how to correct myself in future pursuits, is there any hope with this hb. She's pretty hot and likes girls, which is cool because my girl likes girls so i could imagine a little threesome action in the future, that is if i can save this sinking ship.

Advice?

She's not interested, and you don't seem to really be expressing any intent. You're just trying to run "game" with not real purpose. Aside from that you're using weed as the staple of your interactions.

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Lol

And you know how she read that? " Do You wanna hang out long enough so we can actually have sex this time?"

It's no biggy though man, but you are trying to be "funny", and its not coming across as funny; she still doesn't know you yet. A simple " Alright, So lets hang out". And then you'd invite her to the park or something to chill and smoke to take the edge off of the unsuccessful escalation of last time. Its all calibration. You don't rush back into the bed, you take a step back to take two steps forward. Throw her off. She knows what you want at this point.

Leave it though. Let her contact you and just be casually normal this time around. Don't go initiating anymore.

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What is the purpose of running game but too run it lol.

Update:
About two days later she hits me up...
her:Hey im sorry to leave you hanging i suck at phones.
But i still have tommorrow off!
And I will make my sales before i see you(crying laughing emoji)

Me:Word lol, cool lets try for 3 I'll let you know if anything comes up.
We'll have fun:P

Well it seems there will be a field report in the future. If what i think is true then she got the hint. I showed social value by just leaving it be and she took the bait. She's a nice girl though maybe ill actually be able to enjoy her instead of "Running Game". Im about 75% sure she isn't positioning me for the boyfriend category because shes informed me that she plans on moving to Washington as some point. Either way you shake it I think i'm in guys. Any last minute advice? I think I'm going to follow Mr.Fews and tone it down a little. Light kino, patterning, get her to qualify a bit...but all in all just enjoy her company, shes a cool girl besides thats usually how i get most of them anyway;). Will keep the boys updated.

Take her easy
and if shes easy
take her twice

You've done very little flirting with this woman. Showed little intent. For all she knows you're looking for a friendly meeting. You're not.

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Yea everyone's posts here are pretty solid.

I wanted to bang this 19 y/o from out of town that I talked to for like 1 year+, and she told me straight up I came across as a friend through our messages. I tend to be really friendly and very patient when I'm extremely sexually interested in a woman over text. When she told me that of course I said I have been dreaming about having sex with her for a long time and was not looking for freinds. Of course she knew what I wanted and within minutes of meeting we were kissing and her hand was on my dick. I have found that most women automatically know why you are talking to them at some level, and if you are patient enough building rapport, they will eventually if you're still talking give you an opportunity or two or actually bring up sex before you.

Anyway, you do need to turn "game" off and go with natural escalation. Don't jerk off before you see her. Sounds like you have some exp so do what your instincts tell you while you read her interest. Most of the time, if a girl is seeing you it's implied mutual interest. You really don't have to talk abou sex at all (I know hard to do) - most of the time before I have sex with a woman I'm not thinking or talking much about it at all. It just happens... I'm more focused now on enjoying being with the girl than whether I'm going to bust a nut or not. I think most women operate this way and it's the key to being good with them.

Do you mean grammar?

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Whoa whoa!! Zeik heil to the grammer Nazi over here lol.

As for masterm1ne true true,game is good to generate interest but when it comes down to it you can't ignore natural chemistry and attraction. I guess the God-like pua's, of course, have found way's to generate it no matter who the girl is... Regardless, I'm far off from that and I'm not sure i ever want to be that. She probably knows what I'm after, now; i think it'd be a good move to take it easy let nature take its course.

but then again I could be wrong.lol

Proper punctuation and grammar is the difference between 'helping your Uncle, Jack, off a horse' and 'helping your uncle jack off a horse.' lol

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Natural isn't better, it's just natural. Really tired of that bullshit thinking.

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Agree with this point. Too much of a badge of honor comes with this title.

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I went back to try to figure out where someone put natural is better... Regardless, the end game of pickup is to get to a point where you are natrual and aren't thinking about what to do or say. How is that not better than the former, a state of it not being natural and worrying about what to do and say?

Also, if the point of every pickup for you is to get laid then I feel sorry for you. The more easy sex I have in my life, the more I have found I much rather enjoy my time with someone I like and likes me back that I can be real and have fun with. Sex is a bonus on top of the aforementioned priority.

Anyway, on with the circle jerk !!!

I like having sex. I'm not a renaissance man lol. Just a matter of preference there regarding the utility of sex vs friendship. I have guy friends to hang out with, and I get no pleasure from just being around women who I am not fucking.

And natural game as an idea has devolved into "just hang around and be cool" as opposed to actually trying to accomplish a goal. To me that's like going to a bar and never trying to get the bartenders attention for a drink. "Oh I'm not going to try to get a drink, either he sees me in the crowd or not either is cool with me"

This is a hobby, and I play to win. When I stop enjoying it, I don't do it for a while. No lifestyle change here.

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Did anyone else read this as the OP thinking he knows his shit but he really doesn't know a damn thing? Look at all the lingo. OP, good luck.

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