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 Post subject: special date
PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2017 8:45 pm 
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Ex of mine suggested to me that she wants to have a special date with me this coming weekend.I am not sure what that means.We broke up some months ago but recently we have been meeting up and she seems happy meeting up with me.Last time i was with her,she suggested she wanted to have a "special date".I have no idea what it meant but my gut feeling says it means sex.I could ask her but am afraid it will make her feel slutty.And i really need to know if she means sex.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2017 9:04 pm 
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Ask her what she means by "special date".

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2017 5:26 am 
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Ask her what she means by "special date".
How do i ask her is what i mean. If i ask her what she means by a special date directly, i am afraid she may take it wrongly. How do i subtly find out wht she means?If i ask directly she will probably sense i am expecting sex,which makes me look desperate.
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2017 5:34 am 
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Her: we should have a special date.
You: what do you mean by special date?

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I'm guessing special = sexy time, but even if it doesn't, what have you got to lose by assuming the best and leading things towards that goal? You'll know soon enough whether you misread the situation or not.

In other words, just go with your gut feeling (and find out through experience), instead of potentially self-sabotaging by second-guessing things and confusing yourself.

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i am afraid she may take it wrongly.
The only thing that makes you look desperate is that fact that you're clearly staying that you're afraid of your ex girlfriend. Are you kidding me? What the hell is she going to do? What power does she have that you feel you should be in afraid of her reaction? Where is your balls my friend?

If she takes it the wrong way, SO THE FUCK WHAT.. Then what? You're not being offensive or disrespectful. You're asking a direct simple question. IF she gets bothered by that, there are way bigger fish to fry here than a special date.

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Her: we should have a special date.
You: what do you mean by special date?
By special it seems more like she means a surprise date
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i really need to know if she means sex.
why? you've been going out with her anyway. just let her surprise you. why ruin her fun.
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Her: we should have a special date.
You: what do you mean by special date?
By special it seems more like she means a surprise date

How much of a surprise can it be if she sees it coming after telling you to do it. How about you ditch the bitch and find some new girls?

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Ask her what she means by "special date".

I laughed.

The questions lately have been pretty sad.

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