hey bro, i'm no pro but here's my answer...

I'm glad to hear she digg's you, if she "likes" you then it won't dispell if you show interest.

If you want to get with her then you don't have a choice but to ask her out. Do it in the same sort of style you've been using on her already, or if you could someway use an open-ended statement to get her ask for some alone time with you.

But what do to if she says, 'well why didn't you say yes so long ago if you really liked me?'... hmm beyond me. You could either say, 'well i couldn't think of a good place', LAME (in my opinion).... hmmmm

Sorry that's the best I can do....

MichaelAngelo

Alright, if it's having an adverse effect on how she feels about you, you need to step up your game some more.

It seems at the moment, you've focused too much on making her feel attraction for you, and now you need to build up some comfort too. Get her alone, invite her out to something you're already doing.

Shoot her some IOI's as well as retaining a certain level of mystique about you by not handing it to her on a plate. If she asks why you never call, tell her that it's unfair of her to expect you to make all the effort and she needs to get in touch with you some of the time. After all, you're a busy man!

Helps?

Volunteer for something. Preferable some cool with alot of interaction. Then invite her to tag along. That will help build comfort. The attraction is there!

I Volunteered for a Wine tasting convention! OMG That was the best 3 days I spent Volunteer. It was free Wine and Food for me. The resturants that were holding these tasting were easily 4 to 5 stars! The only reason I was allowed to Volunteer because my roommate's mother Manager's one of the resturants.

We just recently hooked up a friend as a Valet Parker. Now we get 50% discount on any resturant we won't downtown. Aswell as can eat Sunday brunch(18 dollar's a person) for free at my roommate's mother resturant. Lately I have been trying to work on connections. That has been time spender is getting to know the people.

VIP status really looks good when you go out!

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Your suffering from ONE-ITIS pretty bad. Just relax. If its going to its going to happen. Your are going to have to ask her out on a date just you and her. Its that simple. Tell her you want a get a couple of new shirts and ask her if she wants to come help you pick some out. After that you get hungry and ask her to go out to eat with you. Escalate Escalate Escalate!

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Hesitation means Masturbation!

Hey how we all doing? First off holy fuck any time you put this much thought into any one girl your chances are extremely slim as if you over think you don't proceed with a proper action and you let everything fluster you.

The shopping thing works however everyone does this shit as they have read the GAME. Truth is that it does not matter what you do as long as your having fun then your charisma and energy will make it so that she has a good time. Tell her your taking her to some fancy salsa dancing thing and take her paint balling instead just do something you enjoy.

As for your escalation why can you do it in a group yet not alone? I am willing to bet because in a group your not afraid and don't put pressure on yourself. Well guess what if you do not act on your wants then your nothing but a chode and nothing good can come of it. However even if you act and fail then you can learn something KNOWLEDGE IS POWER.

YOU MUST FAIL TO LEARN HOW TO SUCCEED.

ChowforNow,

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"Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm disappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistently, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying."

"How did it start?Well, I don't know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking."

"Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me"

"Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It doesn't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck"

"Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, re energize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind"

Hey cranberry sauce, again, I'm no pro, but here' my take...

You can try first kissing her on the cheak, or neck LIGHTLY. That shouldn't freak her out if she's into you. From there, if you get good vibes, you can move to the lips.

You mentioned it's always the girl kissing you and you don't know how to escalate with a shy girl, i think i have a similar problem.

I've been going out with this one girl for a month now, and she mentioned to me how she wants me to take more control of the kissing aspect. She's pretty shy and tender, and the only way she's going to make out with me is if I turn her on with my own kissing.

Problem is... I've been dubbed a bad kisser by enough girls for me to beleive it. I know i'm not a good kisser (yet, maybe with practice) and it's holding me back from taking charge. How should I take charge if I don't know what I'm doing?

Anywho, if you're a good kisser you should show her your stuff. I guess I can say that if I was pretty decent I'd have no fear of turning a girl on with my kissing skills.

Strut your stuff!!! And if anyone has advice for me, it's WAY welcome!

With experience you can usually tell if a girl wants to kiss you. Just look her in the eyes and go for it if you think she wants to. TAKE CHARGE! Alpha males go for what they want.
Additionally, if you need some help getting over that first time you could try this. I don't remember where I read this, but it is definitely not my own material. Tell her to close her eyes, grab her hand and with ur other hand brush the hair out of her face. Then whisper in her ear "You can open your eyes now." When she does ask if she thought you were going to kiss her.
IF YES - say, i prefer to do it when you can see me and KISS HER.
IF MAYBE - do same.
IF NO - say i was just seeing if you trusted me.
I never have done this one as I prefer to just go in usually, but this could possibly work if you have some anxiety about making the move. Don't know what to tell you if she says NO though...
GOOD LUCK! Keep us updated

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Don't sweat it man, and you can kino in a group, but you have to do it in a playful manner. Here's what you have to do, you have to let her know that you now find her attractive first, state some reasons, but not all of them. Keep the denials going off and on, keep her in middle of acceptance or approval with you. Create this level of suspense with her my man, and learn how to occupy those obstacles.

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