Actually... Disregard my last statement. If she's meeting me, I feel like she's invested enough time to be interested in meeting which means that I should assume sex to happen because she probably is. My philosophy is to spend no more that an hour before pulling somewhere. In my current situation it may be tough as logistics for me sorta sucks. However, if she's not trying to put out or invites me to her place I will begin to close the date and schedule another time to meet.
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Let me bullet point this for you young squire.

-She's on tinder.
-She's here for a good time, not a long time.
-She's European, likely not near as reserved as you are.
-She isn't looking for a scrabble partner.
-Swedish girls believe that any amount body hair makes them appear less female.

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I'd say next time for a situation like this

Get some confirmation she's real... Maybe a phone call and pictures
Find out her situation beforehand.. Who she is staying by.. Who's there
Good you have a car... Id pick her up and wing from there. Lead and adventure and all that shit... You have the advantage of being able to say let me show you this.. That.. Boom back at yours for some shit

Awesome! Let me ask you. If you were in my shoes from my perspective. What would a date like this look like?

Exactly my thinking minus the back to my place because my logistics stinks at the moment and funds are tight for a hotel. So as mentioned before its sex with the dolphins at the beach in the outback, or her spot.

PM'd you

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This whole thread made me LOL

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UPDATE:

Spent $22.75 last night. However, I didn't get the lay yet. We setup a day 2 for Sunday which is the day before she leaves. She agreed to meet that day and said she wanted to see me before she left. It was an awesome night though. Got to learn and get a taste of her country (Sweden) and I gave her a taste of mine. We made out several times and were open to talking about sex. I do think I could have escalating more aggressively, but I didn't want to turn her off. We were walking down streets and my arm was on her lower back and hers on mine. In my car on the way to the park for a walk I place my hand on her leg and she would put her hand on mine. Little things like that.

I did feel like all the makings were there, but it just didn't happen. Her friend was out on a date as well and came back when I dropped her home. She was tired and they are sharing the same bed in one room. So I think that could have been an issue with going inside there.

So hopefully Sunday when we do meet, I'll just have to handle logistics and put out for a inexpensive hotel if needed because I definitely want to have sex with her. But first let's see if she's willing to meet and not flake.

Yer welcome LMAO

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No such thing as too aggressive when things are going well

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When the check comes, let her pay, or offer to split.



Huh?

You're making out multiple times and talking about sex. How would the adult, organic, and logical next step of hanging out alone be a "turn off"?

If anything, your nice guy mentality was the turn off.

I'd place a bet you don't see her again.

???????

How in the hell is hanging out with two women, alone, EVER an "issue"?

Gah! Act like you have a dick, man.

This night could've ended way, way different than it did. A lot of guys on this forum will give you the same advice: learn to seize the moment. The universe, and women, don't owe you another day.

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How do you "let her pay"? Do push the check towards her? Do you just sit there until she offers to pay? Do you tell her to pay? This is not a clear statement on how to do it unlike when you say "offer to split" which is very clear. You need to give instruction on how to "let her pay." Hell, I want to know how to do it.

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Couple different scenarios.


If it's clear the girl is into me, and is trying hard, and wants the night to continue in a very good way (lol), and I'm attracted, I'll pay for the drinks. Eagerness is a big turn on for me, and is always rewarded.

If I'm not sure about how the night will unfold but I'm still attracted, when the check comes, I'll take it and put up my half, plus the tip. This sometimes flusters a girl. She'll say "we're splitting?" occasionally. So I'll say "Yeah. I'm a fan of independent, strong women" in a sincere, fun way, not a bitter way (because it's true, I am a fan of independent, strong women).

If I'm not attracted to the girl after the date, I won't even acknowledge when the check comes. I'll let her pay, or at least split by not acknowledging the check at first.

A lot of guys would find that moment, where the check comes and the woman looks at the man, expecting him to pay as awkward as hell, but I think it's hilarious, and I'm laughing inside and having a good time.

Being able to do this comes from not having a fear of outcome, or offending a woman, or from not having fear of judgement. But here's the thing...it's not boring. And anything is better than being boring on a date.

I approach every date asking myself, "is this girl good enough for me? Does she make me smile? Does she turn me on?".

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Again, you're not explaining "let her pay". You keep explaining splitting the check.

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That's because he doesn't ever have the girl pay.

He is just saying how he would do things. It's obvious in how he writes. He "knows" one way to pick up one type of woman... so that's what he does is talk about it.

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