Hey all,

In a tight situation where I spread myself to thin. I made some major payments for travel yesterday and am low on funds. However, I have a confirmed date tonight at 7PM with a Swedish girl I met on Tinder. She's only out here for a week. She hit me up on SPAM this morning saying she can meet tonight but I'm not sure if I can and wanted to reschedule for Thursday since my funds will be more freed up. How would you go about this? I sorta don't want to miss out on an opportunity especially if she's not free tomorrow (Thursday).

Also my logistics is all over the place. She can't come back to my spot, and I can't fund a hotel tonight if I was trying to move her there. However, I do have a car and can take her on a ride. What are your thoughts? I need help with this situation ASAP!

Thanks

Dinner at her's.

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How do you initiate that. I can get us drinks and that's pretty much it. I like adventure style dates so I think going for a walk in the park and showing her some cool spots here in NYC/Brooklyn would be cool.

Go to a couple bars/patio bars near hers early, suggest a break ordering a pizza and drinks at her place.

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I see. So she's in Williamsburg and I'm currently at work in Manhattan. Should I go to her neighborhood then? I'll have to find a solid place to meet up out there.

I was thinking after we meet I can taker her for a stroll or walk in the park or something.

Her local watering hole, sit at the bar.

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I see... Drinks then a stroll I thought would be good. However, my buddy told me not to go for drinks.

I always make girls pay for their drinks on the first date.

It's hot.

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Dude totally with you on that

Does your buddy bang lots of chicks the same day he meets them?

-Drinks
-Stroll
-More drinks
-Pizza

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Okay Baller, it's okay to pony up for a couple whiskey sours and vodka crans, don't be a cheap fuck either. The way to handle it is lead. Grab the check, look her in the eye and say "You got the next round *wink, wink*" Bring at least that much cash. Real men still use cash still. Also suggesting pizza later won't seem ghetto. Pick up wine on your stroll.

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This is a legitimate question so don't take it personal. How do you make girls pay for their drinks on the first date? The reason I ask is because you often advise guys to say, "I'm celebrating good news at bar x at 9:00, you're welcome to join." That in itself isn't a date since you're going to be there already, so her paying for her drinks should be kind of expected. The OP is on a date, when does he tell her that she's the one to pay for drinks? Is it before the date? Is it before she orders her drink? Is it when the check comes? Secondly, how do you communicate that?

You aren't the first one that's says that they make women pay for drinks on the first date, but no one ever goes into the how they make them pay. I wish more of the "make her pay" guys would go into detail of how they do it.

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Pay for your drink bitch! Said no (white guy) ever.

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I think @HeywoodJablowme summed this up Pay for the first round and say "You got the next round *wink, wink*"

Right on dude, sounds good and all but I'm also on a tight budget today. My plan is to not spend more that $20. I believe that will cover two beers and two slices of pizza in Brooklyn. Afterwards a stroll in a near by park or I was thinking to hop in my car and take her on an adventure to say Prospect Park for a nature night hike or to the beach. later landing at her place or landing in the back of my Outback.