So its about 2 AM and the bar was mostly dead and I was out with two buddies.

There were these 2 heavy chicks we had all been conversing with at this festival, because they were friends with someone else we knew.

They were pretty big.

Anyways, since there was no pressure or anxiety these girls were attracted to me because I was actually making a lot of good jokes and conversing.

One was staring at me and the other was putting her hands all over me but I wasn't really into it.

My friends were egging on me afterwards saying that I should have gone home with them but I was saying that I felt like I needed to have some kind of standards, otherwise I would get repped as a slut in a pretty small social circle.

Honestly, I feel like if I had gotten a nut off I might feel a little bit less anxious today, though.

What's your take on this? I know you PUA masters out there don't have a problem conversing with the hottest babes or accepting anything less than the best, but let's say you're not getting ANY action... What would you do in this scenario?

It's a complete value judgement on your part

given that you didn't go home with either of them I'm guessing you didn't want to do it and were just true to yourself

yeah you'll probably regret it when you're horny but that's just biology

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those who say it can't be done should get the fuck out the way of those doing it

I wish people had higher standards. If you were not attracted to them - like it sounds - I would have left. I would not have even stayed to talk with them.

Some people here think if you're not experienced with women you should use them to gain experience. I'm not of that opinion even if you are inexperienced. If you go home with them, not being into them, and they make you cum, will you be satisfied? I know I would not be.

The anxiety you have in your head is a result of the thoughts that you have thinking you'd be better off if you nutted not from actually nutting. Just imagine if you could aim your thoughts towards something that would help you like going to talk to girls you found attractive.

Depends on how heavy for me.


I'm a big believer in having sex. And the better you get at sex, the more women want to have sex with you.

There's nothing wrong with enjoying some naked time with these women as you improve your bedroom game, and personally evolve into a man who has 9's and 10's blowing up his phone on the regular.


Women like a man who fucks other women. Men who don't get laid repel them. I've actually heard women call it "Desperate Cologne". They can smell it on you. The lack of sex, plus Nice Guy Syndrome is a recipe for years of celibacy.


And you can also figure out how to make a girl cum, which is extremely important.

My take is that life is short. If you wanted to fuck, try and fuck. And don't worry about what "bros" say. Damn. Their opinion wouldn't even factor one ounce into my decision making process.

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No fatties.

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These hos ain't loyal

Fucking a fatty is a lot like riding a moped. It's lots of big fun, you just don't tell your friends about it.

Rule #1 - FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

The judgement is yours on whether you are attracted to them or not.

Personally, I know I wouldn't do it. Just this year I threw a "5" a bone. She wasn't fat. She just wasn't pretty for me. Never again. Sex was good, but she knew I was out of her league and pestered me for months to come. It was just that one time.

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