I just broke up from a 5 year relationship. Any advice on how to stop thinking about her and move one? (pref other than go and sleep around with as many girls).

There was a young woman in another city that I really wanted to meet and have sex with. Ok, we weren't in a 5 year relationship, but she seemed really sweet on the phone, was sorta interested in me, yada yada. I texted her yesterday and somehow she is already moving in with a guy. We were talking last month. I was really frustrated at that moment in time because I rarely find girls that I really like. We can realize our frustrations and do something about it. It's not healthy to sit and stew in the frustration (like a break up).

The answer is not sleeping with a ton of girls. The answer is working on yourself and becoming the best well rounded person you can be. There are 1000 other things to do with yourself that will make you feel better. Women are only a part of a well rounded life. But there are many other things.

The problem with relationships is people get so dependent/reliant on that one other person that they lose track of other healthy things they should already be doing in life - such as social activities/friends, success, moving forward, eating well, working out, etc just to name a few.

Are you doing these things? Is there healthy balance in other parts of your life? My guess is no.

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Hit the gym, re-channel the negative energy. Read literature. Avoid television. Go on hikes, learn to fish or build something. Then approach women. Go on dates, have fun. Live in the moment.

There's always someone younger and hotter.

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And when you do this, a ton of girls will want to sleep with you. So it works well, lol.

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Delete her number, Facebook, and all social media. If she contacts you, do not reply nor save the message. Delete and meet new women.


Keep reminding yourself over and over and keep meeting and dating new women and you will be over someday. 5 years is a long time, so I understand that it might take awhile. Just do what I have said and for the love of god do not mope around the house. Do something with your free time now.

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This post is dumb. Why would you become single and not want to fuck other women? You're free. Go enjoy the bounty. None of this garbage about becoming the next renaissance man...

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In addition to about everything everyone else said...

Go start doing shit you love doing. Go do things you want to do but haven't had time because the relationship.

Find something you want to learn... for me I took on dancing lessons, went back to the style i liked... did a whole bunch of shit my ex was not into doing.

It's all about doing things for you! The thing you have to do is love yourself with things you love doing.

If you are susceptible to depression and are interested in a great read to help you either avoid depression or escape depression check out the book "The Depression Cure" great way to escape it.

Getting over your ex is more about you loving yourself and doing shit for you so that you can learn to be the best you.

I know how difficult it can be to lose someone you care about deeply, I myself fell into a deep depression over it.

One of the biggest things I had to do was forgive her, and take accountability for my actions in the relationship in order to get over her. To create closure

Make a decision that you are past her. This is easy to say to yourself but hard to do with your thoughts.
Make a decision that you are awesome and that you will find what you're looking for (relationship or dating whatever you're looking for)

Also read the book No more Mr. Niceguy do the activities.

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