Agreed. There's all sorts of wrong for her to even have the need to bring Arch in on it.

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Personally I've never liked the compliments style that you're saying is good. They've always seemed too wordy and specific and unnatural to me. If I compliment it's a gut reaction to something and will prob be a few words... Under 5. Like "damn"...or" you.. Look amazing".. All really slow with pauses. More emphasis on the delivery

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What people don’t seem to be able to grasp is that this bullshit is really pretty simple. You can say pretty much whatever you want once you become accustom to gauging reaction.

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Shut down the forum. This is all that needs to be said.

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Are the compliments natural to you? Or are you just saying them to get a positive reaction from the woman you're out with?

If the compliments are genuine and not some " make her like me tactic" you should be fine. However, guys that "over compliment" tend to be guys paying too much attention to idealistic perspective they have of a girl, all while ignoring her negatives and properly screening her to see if she is a fit for him. Are you looking at a woman objectively or are you looking only for the positives? When you're not dealing with a woman realistically she is usually put off and begins to wonder "What does he want?", because you're not even seeing her remotely close to the way she sees herself.

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On average, give 3.4 compliments if you initially opened her with a wide stance, chest out, shoulders back, not moving at all like some kind of unearthly stationary robot.

Give 2.3 compliments if you initially opened her with downtalking vocal tonality and a pasted-on grin, assuming you avoided said posture in the first sentence.

Give 7.4 compliments if you messed up in A3 after negging the target's orbiter's pivot.

Nah, we share everything. And she threw a "green light" at me the other night. Haven't used it yet, not sure I will.

Pretty awesome gf.

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lol, you sound like one of her girlfriends, not a potential lover. Also very ass-kissy in tone.

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It's kind of immature the way she handled it and it is more likely she wanted a reaction from you more than her wanting to show that it annoyed her. Pretty much any guy that has dated young, attractive women knows that this is a way for her to indirectly let you know her value.

What does her throwing in a "green light" have to do with the subject of this post?

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Well this is a charismatic style. I say compliments when they are genuine and true and I mean them. I don't say it because I want a girl to approve of me or because I'm seeking approval...

The biggest difference is I offer compliments to a lot of people. It's not just hot girls, it's people who have an interesting aspect about them... so I compliment. You can compliment just fine as long as you mean it... if you're searching for ways to compliment a woman you're just not doing it because you mean it.

I don't just walk around talking to women with compliments but if something interests me about somebody I certainly say it.

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This is what I mean that your compliments come from a needy perspective because you're needy... your massive ego shows everywhere. You see it as ass kissy because you're needy... I say shit like this to people. I compliment people everywhere I go because it's no sweat off my back. I don't say shit to lift people up, I don't say it because I want them to feel better. I know it does these things but I simply do it because I FEEL LIKE IT! Not to gain approval.

Where your compliments come from has a huge impact on the neediness aspect. You're needy so you have to avoid being it... I'm not so I say what I please.

I don't say a compliment for her approval. In fact most compliments I grant are just hey this and I walk away because i say it to women and men alike. It's not a big deal.

If a girl spent a long time choosing her outfit and you compliment her "choice" because how it compliments her then it works....

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It's not sharing everything; it's believing a girl's bs and not being objective. These guys arent hacking facebook and twitter and sneaking compliments into your gfs inbox. She adds them. She chooses to add guys who send "you're hot" and other compliments. Now that's fine, but come on...dont let a chick pretend like its so tiring or bothersome when she's keeping orbiters for that very purpose, ie compliments. If a chick is telling me, "man these guys who stole my number from the NSA database are so annoying with their compliments"...cool..I'll beleive that. If she's telling me "man these guys who I know are interested who I have no interest in are sending me compliments...its so tiring"...I'll roll my eyes. Don't be naive to think that an adult woman cant manage her social media to the point where she doesnt get unwanted compliments. If I told you my on my facebook I have transexuals sending me compliments all the time and its tiresome, you'd be naive to think I wasnt adding transexuals for the compliments. People are adults.
Nah, wasnt saying something is wrong with it, just that for me I dont communicate like that. None of those lines would be something I would actually think or notice so they wont be genuine for me. If they are genuine to you, then you have a better attention to detail that I do.

Completely Agree.

I can't imagine any of that coming from a true instant natural reaction.

It's never what you say, it's how you say it, so it can go well with the right tone, but it just reads completely "nice guy"and forced.

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As long as we're going to continue this thread because we’re full of words. We have a lot to say and can’t stop saying it.

An offhanded compliment also works well like, "Cute shirt" with a sideways grin. This will make her wonder WTF did he mean by THAT!?. Did he really like it? Was it to young for me? Was it to slutty? Was it to granny? The cool thing is the entire time she's wondering, you are at the top of her think pad list.

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Several of you just said...

It doesn't matter what you say...

Then you tell people not to say certain things...