| What's up gents,
I'm an aspiring PUA from Oakville, ON. I'm 20 years old. I have 13 kills under my belt since 2012. Most of which I can attribute to good luck, a knack for spotting opportunities, and my good pal Jack Daniels (nothing rapey, settle down). Most of my sexual success has been gained from girls crushing on me, instead of the other way around. But my standards are high. I won't say yes to anyone. Except for a couple poor choices in my moments of weakness. I read "The Game" a few months back and got inspired. This seems like a cliché now. It occurred to me that if I turned around my laissez-faire approach to meeting women, I could have far more success. I would not call myself a natural, but I consider myself empathetic. I can identify others' emotions with relative accuracy. Manipulating those emotions is another story.. People say I'm a good looking guy, but I've long struggled with ugly-duckling syndrome. I was the fat kid at school until I was 13. I've lost years of confidence building due to this. It's also the reason for my infatuation with beautiful women and the pride of taking one home, as vain as that sounds. To me, there is no better feeling than seeing her naked for the first time. I've loved and lost and realized long-term monogamous commitments don't suit me. I get bored easily. I need to experience different places and people. I enjoy the thrill of the hunt, but often I find that my focus is shaken by the uncertainty of the moment. Alcohol is my biggest barrier. I rely on it far too much and need to work hard on my sober game. Liquor makes me clever, funny and able to pick-up on subliminal signals from women without second guessing my observations, thus allowing me to respond swiftly and accordingly. I can number close with ease but I'm still very confused as to how I'm supposed to follow up if I'm not looking for a "date" in the formal, relationship-building sense. How do I keep a conversation going for hours instead of the mere minutes it takes to get her number? Should I text her for a few days first and build a rapport? Where do I take her out? What do we do? What do I talk about in order to get her thinking about sex? How do I avoid the urge to tell her I want something serious just to get into her pants? I've left countless phone numbers untouched because of these questions. I will graciously accept any and all advice.
I will be using this forum often as I develop myself. I am open to criticism and will actively seek it. I'm definitely open to meeting up to go sarging and would love to meet somebody with experience to show me how to improve my game. Thanks for reading. I'm excited for what the future holds!
Cheers,
Isaiah
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