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PostPosted: Sun May 28, 2017 6:11 pm 
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Hey everyone, :wink:

If being way too Flirty/Offensive/Sexual to a point where the girl thinks, he only wants sex. Is this bad. Sorry if this is a stupid post. I have tried search tool.


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PostPosted: Sun May 28, 2017 6:31 pm 
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Hey everyone, :wink:

If being way too Flirty/Offensive/Sexual to a point where the girl thinks, he only wants sex. Is this bad. Sorry if this is a stupid post. I have tried search tool.
It depends on you and the girl. If you approach a girl just being purely sexual, she has to view your sexual value as greater than hers because that's all your offering. If you are good with women, you 1) catch her attention, 2) express attraction, 3) get her to find you as attractive, and 4) escalation.

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PostPosted: Mon May 29, 2017 1:26 am 
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If all your game is is 100% full throttle escalating, then you will scare off a lot of girls. You have to dial it down sometimes and speak to them about emotional things or frivolous things that bring the focus away from your sexual agenda. Then once you have that rapport built, go back to escalating.

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PostPosted: Mon May 29, 2017 6:00 pm 
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There is a PUA who's motto is "Make the ho say no". I kind of like his motto because it shows intent, but remember don't just purely escalate without building an emotional connection. Try to come of fun, interesting and different - throw in taking her hand and doing a reading, playfully pushing her, and so on. Use your imagination!


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PostPosted: Tue May 30, 2017 2:15 am 
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keep in mind sometimes it depends on how into you she is. I've noticed when a girl is into me or a "guy" he can get away with saying more and escalating safely. If a girl really likes you, she'll laugh hard at all your jokes, nad let you get away with fucked up comments. But if she's not into then suddenly you're too sexual and/or offensive. like the other post, sometimes you have to dial it back and build some rapport and attraction before resuming the escalation. it call comes down to gauging the girl and her level of interest so that you can be more robust in your game from girl to girl.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 05, 2017 6:25 am 
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It depends on the situation... using common sense to determine whether you can safely push the boundaries (to build interest/attraction) or whether it would hinder you. This is why guys shouldn't become too dogmatic about ideas or material they hear, instead always being open-minded and flexible (no matter how long you've been gaming or results that have occurred in the past).

Some girls are comfortable with sexual talk off the bat, along with crude jokes, but others are more sensitive and you have to pander to their emotional needs to build a connection. It just depends on what you're looking for, and the kind of personality you want to project to find it.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 08, 2017 1:58 am 
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There is a certain way to convey sexuality that is subtle and smooth. I love this style personally.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 08, 2017 2:10 am 
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There is a PUA who's motto is "Make the ho say no". I kind of like his motto because it shows intent, but remember don't just purely escalate without building an emotional connection. Try to come of fun, interesting and different - throw in taking her hand and doing a reading, playfully pushing her, and so on. Use your imagination!
Gunwitchs actual point of that phrase was to keep going until the girl rejects you instead of what most guys do, which is assume she will reject you or a certain action you take. Also kinda lame your imagination could only come up with palm reading and playful push.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 08, 2017 2:34 am 
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The key here is calibration. If the girl seems uncomfortable, tone it down and take a step back, when she starts to warm up again, escalate. It takes a lot of practice to get calibration right but over time you learn it.


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