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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 3:44 pm 
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Hi guys looking for some advice...

Been in a relationship with a girl for two years, had some issues like all couples have fighting over the silly things.

Anyway she ended the relationship two weeks ago. I stupidly chased a bit and got nothing, just leave me alone stop texting we are over for good. She's now blocked me on everything.

Whats my chances of winning her back and whats the best way to go about doing so?

Any advice is much appreciated

Thanks in advance :D


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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 5:06 pm 
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She's now blocked me on everything.

Whats my chances of winning her back and whats the best way to go about doing so?
Zero. It's over man. Time to move on.

She's completely removed you from her life. The best thing to do now is focus on self improvement. You seem too obsessed with this girl. Value yourself more and she'll follow, some day. Maybe in a few months time she'll see you taking care of yourself and exuding a lot of confidence and be inclined to take you back. Hopefully by that point you won't even want her.

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0 chance.

So long as you come to the forum asking about her, and spend your time thinking about how and when you're going to get her back. When your mind becomes consumed with things that are of actual value to you personally like what's the next step you're taking in your life, more so than some girl you'll be much better off.

What exactly was this girl doing for you? Making you laugh? Hugging you? Cooking? And how hard is it to find someone else to do those things? Unless a girls bringing a level of value into your life that no one can "something tangible" I can't understanding "wanting I back". You're on a pua forum. Learn how to attract another.

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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 8:15 pm 
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I'll raise your chances above zero. More often than not, men and women tend to conform to each other's personalities to appease one another. For a man, a woman conforming is a good thing because it is her becoming more submissive. For a woman, a man conforming is a bad thing because it is him becoming more submissive. At this point you're no longer that attractive man that she originally fell for.

How do you get her back? You don't try to get her back. You go back to being your old self. You go back to being the guy that is attractive to other women. Get to the point of not caring that she's gone and at the same time remain polite to her if you see her. You get her back by moving on and not wanting her.

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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 8:21 pm 
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Hi guys looking for some advice...

Been in a relationship with a girl for two years, had some issues like all couples have fighting over the silly things.

Anyway she ended the relationship two weeks ago. I stupidly chased a bit and got nothing, just leave me alone stop texting we are over for good. She's now blocked me on everything.

Whats my chances of winning her back and whats the best way to go about doing so?

Any advice is much appreciated

Thanks in advance :D
You gotta read this; relationships/the-guys-who-want-their-b ... 0EX%20BACK

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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 11:17 pm 
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Anyway she ended the relationship two weeks ago. I stupidly chased a bit and got nothing, just leave me alone stop texting we are over for good. She's now blocked me on everything.
When a woman blocks you on her phone and social media, it means she thinks you're emotionally-uncentered, and veering towards creepy.

This is why I preach controlling your emotions, playfullness, and slight indifference.

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Whats my chances of winning her back and whats the best way to go about doing so?

You go to the gym, you go on hikes. You read. You work at your career. You meet, and date other women. If you provided any value at all, ever, (sexual, positive bonding) you might hear from her in 3-8 months assuming you don't contact her.

I once blew up at a girl on the phone, and became emotionally-uncentered. We'd been fucking for a couple months. She said "fuck you", and blocked me on her phone. I swallowed my pride, realized I made a mistake, and simply did not contact her again.

Six months later (after zero contact from me), she texts me, saying she's in town and wants to meet. She says "I remember you were really good at doggy". She texts me 10pm at the bowling alley bar.

I agree, then never show up. And then I block her on my phone after she hurls insults at my gf of the time, and posts on FB how much of a jerk I am, lol.

Why did that happen?

1. I provided sexual value when we we're together. I made her cum on command, basically.
2. I had a gf who was hotter than her, and it bugged her. She thought she was "good enough" to get me back. She was mistaken.

Honestly assess if you provided value.

This is why I preach personal evolution, and to continue to meet new women. There is always someone younger, hotter, and smarter.

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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 11:26 pm 
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Dude, these ex's always are traps.
Girl is in LTR, I k close her and shit, we talk for a while. She cuts contact, since she likes her boyfriend more. 3 months into this year shes been sending me looks all the time. After a huge period of me evaluating about if its worth going back or not, I went back. This was two days ago. Result? She calls and tells me to gtfo.
Never go back unless they go to you first dude, these ex's will ignore you, realize you provide tons of value and make power games to see if you submit. If you submit its over.


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PostPosted: Wed May 24, 2017 12:18 am 
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Hi guys looking for some advice...

Been in a relationship with a girl for two years, had some issues like all couples have fighting over the silly things.

Anyway she ended the relationship two weeks ago. I stupidly chased a bit and got nothing, just leave me alone stop texting we are over for good. She's now blocked me on everything.

Whats my chances of winning her back and whats the best way to go about doing so?

Any advice is much appreciated

Thanks in advance :D
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Appreciate, and agree (obviously lol)

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PostPosted: Wed May 24, 2017 4:17 pm 
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Cheers for the advice guys

Decided best think I can do it start smashing the gym and working on my game

Found out she joined tinder, two days after break up

So I guess she's moving on, so I'll do the same


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PostPosted: Wed May 24, 2017 4:17 pm 
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Cheers for the advice guys

Decided best think I can do it start smashing the gym and working on my game

Found out she joined tinder, two days after break up

So I guess she's moving on, so I'll do the same


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Found out she joined tinder, two days after break up

So I guess she's moving on, so I'll do the same
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LOL Good luck out there Bro, there's lots of them. A new one turns 21 every day.

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PostPosted: Thu May 25, 2017 12:33 am 
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Hit your bodyweight bench press, fuck 10 girls and you won't care.

^ as much as I was joking, that's actually valid, lol.

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PostPosted: Thu May 25, 2017 2:46 am 
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You guess she's moved on??? You say it was her Tinder membership that clued you into that fact?

I'll be honest, I was only in this thread for 20 seconds and it was beyond evident that she had already moved on as soon as I read "She's now blocked me on everything."

I mean unless this is some advanced form of hard to get the girls are now playing....I'm pretty sure the writing was on the wall as far as this thing being over for good.

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PostPosted: Thu May 25, 2017 3:49 am 
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It's 2017 bro. People are banging left and right. It's even easier to game now that these dating apps/sites are out.


Move on.

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A new one turns 21 every day.
Guys need to embrace abundance like this. Forget scarcity.


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