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 Post subject: Re: Groups and leaders
PostPosted: Tue May 02, 2017 7:20 pm 
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Studies show muscles increase first night hook ups by 30 to 40 percent.they have an effect on new women, and thus group dynamics....
This is simply coming to a conclusion based on numbers and doesn't reflect the psychology around it. A guy that has muscles may believe that he has an advantage and will therefore approach more women and push for sex that same day. At the same time, the average guy may not approach as many women or sexually escalate because he doesn't want to scare her away because he doesn't view himself as a sexual being. This is why scientists don't come to conclusions based on data alone. They tend to try to understand the data.

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 Post subject: Re: Groups and leaders
PostPosted: Tue May 02, 2017 8:19 pm 
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Obviously visual appeal grants you more opportunities from your physique to your style, that doesn't mean you close more opportunities you simply have more easy opens.

Being the best dressed accomplishes exactly what you are saying without spending hours in the gym... because it grants the same value.

This is all science too, also studies show you can get as attractive girls as you feel you are. So perhaps you should start with focusing on how attractive you feel and thus you'll get a more attractive girl. For most people we tend to get the person who is similar to our level of attractiveness, usually for men our level of attractiveness is very internal and quite related to the appeal we ourselves feel we have. Why? We dress differently, we exercise, we have more appealing body language, we have a better attitude, more self-esteem, more confidence, in general we don't let those around us effect how we feel or what we do.

Yes physique is nice, but the reality is you do you for you and you'll do alright.

So just be sure you internalize the right stuff, then you'll do the right stuff and pull tons of chicks.

I had a model friend and I got 2 girls numbers of girls he brought to the bar in 3 weeks, because they were more into me. I'm 5'8 and at the time weighed 220... so yeah physique helps but it certainly doesn't close the deal if you are an attractive man it will seep out in many ways.

Basically:
-Have Style - Hair cut, hair, accessories, how you dress,
-Inner Game - Confidence, Self-esteem, Happiness, DO YOU FOR YOU
-Fitness -Work out eat right, this and inner game will give you great body language
-GRIT - The drive and Passion to accomplish your goals, purposes, and mission in life.

If you have some minor flaws it's fine we all do, but Sean Stephenson proves we can all get some pretty dope chicks no matter how we look.

Now work on your nonverbal reading and "speaking" and you'll do fine with a mix of conversation, flirting, and escalation skills.

However if you're the center piece for your game and not some system, your results will be authentic genuine, long term, and amazing. You'll have girls texting and calling at 2 am to come fuck, lesbians reaching in your pants and asking to come home with you on the dance floor, in fact my conversation, flirting and escalation skills are still recovering from being in a long relationship and those are 2 of my recent experiences.

As I get my skill sets back and get back to where I was I'll end up doing ridiculous better than I ever was. So... yeah physique can help but not as much as what comes with the type of person who has a physique... discipline, and all that.

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 Post subject: Re: Groups and leaders
PostPosted: Tue May 02, 2017 8:55 pm 
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This is simply coming to a conclusion based on numbers and doesn't reflect the psychology around it. A guy that has muscles may believe that he has an advantage and will therefore approach more women and push for sex that same day. At the same time, the average guy may not approach as many women or sexually escalate because he doesn't want to scare her away because he doesn't view himself as a sexual being. This is why scientists don't come to conclusions based on data alone. They tend to try to understand the data.

There are all sorts of variables from the man's side.

But a lot of the data is simply from the perception of women. The more you talk, the less dominant you seem. The more muscles you have, the more dominant you appear. The more you keep your receding hairline, the less dominant you appear, when you shave your head and grow a beard or stubble, then you flip the dominant perception, etc.

Either way, the OP talked about "groups and leaders".

My theory on this is quite simple.

The bull elk DOES NOT GIVE A FUCK about other bull elk unless a challenger approaches his harem. This is how men should behave when it comes to pickup, and keeping women as well.

The bull elk does not seek to join and "lead" a group of yapping spike bucks. He simply wanders about the woods, focused on himself, and the cow elk follow.

By following the fundamentals of chill indifference, fitness, teasing, confidence , and focusing on self improvement in your career and the arts (fiction, music, any non-couch hobby), you won't need to dick around with a pack of spike bucks. You simply walk into a place, and the girls know you are the dominant male.

You don't need to say a word.

And when you just gave a woman five orgasms the previous night, and have this kind of confidence, you have your pick. It's like catnip.

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 Post subject: Re: Groups and leaders
PostPosted: Tue May 02, 2017 8:58 pm 
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Negs on other alphas in group environment are a waste of time. If you follow a great fitness program, your body will speak for you.

What are you doing talking to men if your goal is seducing a woman?
Arch, how about you give an example of a great fitness program?


Carbs under 60g a day, one cheat day a week. Gym every other day for two hours, with an emphasis on weight training. A turn away from the couching-lifestyle, go on hikes, do outdoors stuff.

If a man follows this for a year (every other day, only miss if its urgent) he won't have to hide his feminine body in those long, black urban coats. He can walk around in a henley or a fitted button-up and be proud.

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 Post subject: Re: Groups and leaders
PostPosted: Tue May 02, 2017 9:24 pm 
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There are all sorts of variables from the man's side.

But a lot of the data is simply from the perception of women. The more you talk, the less dominant you seem. The more muscles you have, the more dominant you appear. The more you keep your receding hairline, the less dominant you appear, when you shave your head and grow a beard or stubble, then you flip the dominant perception, etc.
That was my point. There are all sorts of variables that can make a man attractive. I think Poet's statement about who he was makes that apparent.

I think you confuse the more you talk, the less dominant you seem with not being interesting when you talk. Most attractive guys that have no personality run into this problem all of the time and they talk themselves out of being attractive. This is how a lot of guys get labeled a "musclehead". A rule of thumb to remember with women is if one finds you interesting she will look for reasons to find you attractive.

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