So I recently got chatting with this girl and things seem to be going really well but I always spread my eggs and what have you so I had a number of girls I was chatting to. She seemed to pick up on the and remarked that I'm, "a bit smooth" and a "ladies man" I'm really not sure how to take these comments, is it an insult and her way of telling me to cool it or is it simply her noticing where I'm leading our conversation. She's incredibly smart and so I think she's one step ahead of me with this but I've been pretty good at keeping to conversation playful and keeping it going and she seems happy to see me so I'm not too sure any thoughts

Well hopefully you kept your mouth shut and didn't outright tell her you try to see a lot of women. Assuming that wasn't the case, you literally can do anything. You can make a joke about it, you can ignore it, you can use it as an opportunity to talk about monogamy and how society views relationships and sex. Basically as long as you can keep your composure in how you react, you're good.

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What do you mean that she's one step ahead of you? This statement is a red flag to me.

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She just seems to be fully aware of my game and brushes it off but at the same time we're having great text conversations and I'm trying to hint at a meet up its looking decent enough just having to be careful with how I handle her

She's fully aware that you are trying to game her, so you're hinting around? There's only two things that can be happening here...she's brushing your game off and waiting for you to get to the point or you're an orbiter. If she is waiting for you to get to the point then she will eventually get bored and you will officially become an orbiter. I can't understand why you feel the need to be careful with a girl that knows that you're running game. Is she all of a sudden going to be spooked because you actually acted on what she's already aware of?

Not acting is an unattractive quality.

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The problem is she's friends with a fair few of my friends so I'm being super fly with her but not direct and I'm not sure if I'm doing it right

If she knows what you're trying to do and it's not happening then you're not doing it right. She is going to get used to you not being direct and it's going to just be the way that you two talk. Regardless if she's friends with your friends or not, you have to make your move if you want something to happen.

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Well lets be honest here guys, I mean girls know what we're running on them. If you are attractive and have smooth lines then she certainly knows she is not the only one on god's green earth who have heard it before.

Whether it's a sh^t test or she simply pointing out something she is observing, it still falls back on you to continue to escalate and move past it.

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You (with a sly grin): "That's an accurate observation."

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And he'll stay in the same position that he is in now.

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Attractive women don't give a shit if you're a player. they love it deep down.

So just admit to it and move forward.

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