Hey guys my first post, looks like a great forum!

I've been chatting to a girl on Facebook, toying with her a bit.

anyway i asked when she was going to ask me out and she said i had to ask her which im still waiting to do.

I would have no trouble (maybe a little) asking her out but she's kind of a celebrity/model from a tv soap, a 9, maybe 9.5 and teh type who attends lots of high class events and venues.

I think im quite good looking and got a decent sense of homour but wonder if there were any tips you guys could offer as to how to approach this situation. im worries that a simple drink in the local bar would be enough.

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if and when you meet her, you gotta ask yourself "how much does her image matter to her"

people who are too insecure and are way too susceptable to outward perception are, atleast in my experiences, alot tougher of a nut to crack.

go for it though, see if you can find a loophole through all that. sometimes mutual interest is just a ploy to reach normalcy. make her forget who she thinks she is when she is around you

kudos on the pull

Here's what you have to think to yourself. You said she goes to a lot of "high class events/venues", do you think you are below this or don't qualify. If so you are already just beating yourself. First thing to remember is that the PUA is the exception to the rule. It should not matter to you if she's Beyonce. You have to come across as though her fame doesn't affect you. It doesn't matter to you, because you are the prize.

As for the Day 1. Keep it simple meet her for coffee. Don't ask her to the bar because, then you are for the most part stuck with her the whole night. Keep it simple and casual.

stated my point, but better. society has given her her own pedestal to sit on, what are you going to do to lure her away from it

Hey thanks for the replies. i thik coffee sounds good as i dont want to get stuck with a champagne guzzling blonde!

As for irnoring her fame, well so far she doesn't know i know who she is if that makes any sense. She stated shes interested in being famous and i asked her if she was famous yet to which she game me a reasonably humbe answer.

Thanks.

Well, I don't think it was a good idea to ask if she was famous yet. However, her answer being humble indicates you didn't ruin anything by asking. Make sure to not bring up her being famous again, unless she does. You can't let her know that you know she is famous either. As long as you play it off as though she's just another girl in the world things should stay fine.

Ok so in this instance, do as I say and not as I would do. Because I'm probably not solid enough with my inner game to stop drooling should the Playboy Playmate of the Year start kinoing me or something...

Anyway, make sure to remember that she is just like any other really really hot girl. So she will probably test your resolve as a man and as a person both consciously and subconsciously. Bells should go off in your head when she starts to make you jump through hoops to interact with her, sort of like trying to turn you into her pet. Hold your frame, and if you jump through her hoops have her jump through yours first and last. Just remember once you get past her shield, she is just like everyone else, and it's only her particular interests and personality that separate her from every other man, woman, and child on this planet. So there you go, have fun and good luck.

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The others hit it right on the head. But I'm gunna contribute because well.... how often will I be able to quote one of my favorite movies....?

"Don't put the p*ssy on a pedestal."

Treat her like you would any other normal woman. She'll respect that too, since for every one guy would acts normally with her, their are 12 who act like drones around her as if she is too good for them and it is some sort of an honor that she is even talking to them.

This is a great line for disarming beautiful women:

"You know beauty is common, but what really makes a good woman is an awesome personality and a great out look on life. So why don't you tell me three things about yourself that make you stand out in a crowd. What would make me want to get to know you."

What you have done by saying this is letting her know that you aren't intimidated by her beauty. Nor do you particularly care about it. Almost every girl will then proceed to tell you three things about themselves because now they realize because there beauty doesn't affect you like it normally would any other way, they now feel the need to qualify themselves to you.