I have been part of the Pua community since graduating High School in 2013 but all my game has been in picking up women in nightclubs and bars. I don't look for long term relationships I just go for one night stands so my game outside of the club is pretty limited. I stopped clubbing and decided on trying for girls in my social circle, their friends, other girls I know and day game.

Quick History : So I know this HB9 I grew up with In Phoenix Arizona we went to High School together and we were really close friends for all 4 years. I currently live in Queens She stays in Albany which is about a 3 hour drive. I am not emotionally invested in her but I want to game her when we were in High School she was one of my best friends we stopped talking after it she had a bf and when I seen her in Phoenix (randomly)in Summer 2014 and she was very awkward when she seen me and tried to avoid me (she was with her bf) I personally didn't care but I hadn't talked to her for a good year. Then last year she broke up with her bf I didn't even know about it and she had been single since . I seen her post something on Facebook about living in Newyork (State) I shared it and I think she realised I also lived in Newyork now, she then became active on my wall for a whole month liking and commenting on everything I posted I found it weird because she was never active on my wall ever. So I contacted her on FB and started talking to her she suggested taking a 3 hour car ride to come see me in Queens I said yeah that would be cool ill contact you when I'm free. After that she stopped being active on my feed again and I never cared about seeing her so I never did contacted her until a month ago when I wanted to start gaming girls out of clubs .I told her lets meet up soon she was super excited and wrote a paragraph and even wrote ''I can't wait i'm super excited'' I once again didn't feel like contacting her for another month and a few days ago I contacted her saying lets go out this week when are you free. She seen it and never replied its been almost a week I don't think i'm going to contact her again unless you guys think I should but I wanted to talk about text game and see where I went wrong.

The first time I contacted her I was using the afc message ''hey whats up'' nothing special and got a reply second time I used a old memory of ours the third time (this time) I said '' hey lets chill when are you free?'' and got no reply and yes she is single still (she posted about it in a askfm question a couple of days before I messaged her) and I know she hates New York and wants to move back to Arizona because she is lonely here. Should I try again and what should I say? or Just drop it all together ? and what did I do wrong that I need to fix?

I see a couple of things wrong.
1. You're trying to do the "old friends" act to get close to her. It's like you're trying to sneak by her defenses. IMO, you should have acknowledged the fact that you used to be attracted to her "back in the day". It may end up causing her not to want to meet up with you because you may try something...if that's the case, it wouldn't have worked out either way. If she does want to meet up with you, she's going to be open to possibilities.

2. You didn't take advantage of her excitement. If a girl is excited to see you, you have to capitalize on that. If it wears off, you'll probably never be able to get her back to that level.

Give it another shot. Tell her you're going to be in her area on a specific day and you guys should meet up. If she says she's free then go out there. If she ignores or says she's busy then don't worry about contacting her anymore.

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Thanks for the advice I appreciate it but I never had a thing for her back in the day so I don't know why her defenses would be up.

It doesn't matter if you did or didn't have anything for her. It's what you tell her to believe that there used to be an attraction there that she was unaware of. If she's turned off by the idea of the two of you then she won't be interested. If she is open to the idea, or at least curious, then she'll meet with you.

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