I apologize if this is in the wrong area. I looked around and was not sure where this would best fit.

I recently ran into a scenario I have not encountered before. I’d like some opinions on this, so if it ever arises again I can be prepared. I’ll skip all the other details to keep this short.

So there is this 18 year old freshman girl in one of my classes. Eventually I get her number and she agrees to go out with me to a club that week.

We agree on a time and everything is cool. I ended up getting there 30 minutes early because I wanted to drink a little bit and check the place out.

She ends up coming like 20 minutes late. I didn't really notice at the time though because I was talking to other people and drinking.

So when she does arrive she has a friend with her which she did not mention.

I laughed in my head and just said fuck. I could kind of see why she might have done that. She doesn't know me well, and might have wanted a friend with her. Thats koo. Could have mentioned it though.

I immediately start chatting them both up and learning about them. I made them laugh and shit. Good vibes all around. I was not phased at all or awkward.

This is the part that irritates me. After like 10 minutes, more of them start showing up. She ended up bringing like 7 other people with her, guys and girls.

I was just like “damn, you could've told me you were bringing the squad with you haha. I could’ve invited my friends out too and we could all chill”

She basically said she didn't plan any of that and it just happened out of nowhere. Which was a pretty lame excuse.

So this fucked up my game plan pretty bad, so I had to improvise. I talked to all of them and it was chill, I made them all laugh a lot in the beginning. It was incredibly difficult to talk to the girl I was interested in because all of her friends were there. She kept bouncing around and talking to friends.

I didn't trip though. I went and started talking to other people and actually made friends with some dudes in a frat.

I would kind of switch back and forth. I would try and talk to her for a little bit and then I would go find another group to chill with. She came up to me at one point and said “everytime I try and find you, you’re somewhere else”

So later that night I go dance with her. I’m not a very good dancer. I’m working to improve that. I made a joke out of my shitty dance skills and she was laughing. It was fun but I’m sure it still hurt my points a little bit.

So we left the dance floor. A little later I come around and she's sitting talking with one of the dudes I think came with her. So I was like okay cool, I went and started talking to other girls at the club.

I don’t chase after anyone more than is appropriate. A hour or so had gone by and I hadn't seen her. So I decided I’d send her one text to see where she was. She didn't reply. So I was like koo and I kept doing my thing.

Then I see her with that dude and like two other friends. I had talked to him briefly earlier that night. So as they walked by I smiled and said “Hey man! Whats up!” in a friendly manner. He said “not much man, are you good?” I laughed and said “I’m good. I’m always good man!”

After that I just totally forgot about her and started talking to other girls. I ended up getting a girl's number and have a date with her this upcoming Monday.

I’d like an analysis of this. Do you guys think I handled this correctly, given the situation? Any areas you think I could’ve improved on?

Thank you guys, I appreciate the help!

Did she know it was supposed to be a date?

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