General rule when HB your friend likes, likes you instead?



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 12:17 am 
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Do you guys just start DLV yourself and DHV your friend?

I saw this Chris Rock bit where he said, "girls know if theyr'e gonna fuck you in the first 5 minutes of meeting you"

it might be impossible to get her to like your friend, unless if you hardcore DLV and take one for the team

what is the general rule?


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 12:37 am 
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Do you not like the girl at all? If you do then whats the point in letting her go to waste its not like your friends going to be hitting it anytime soon.

Stop thinking so much and just do it

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depends on how close you are with ur friend. If its your best friend then its prob a good idea to let her go. Theres always another girl out there, but so few best friends.

But...if its a guy you just kinda know, then go for it. You dont have to be blatant about it. Be like "I wasn't even trying, but I think she likes me. I tried to help you out...sorry bud". I dont think your friend will care that much at this point (unless hes a little girl) bc you said you already tried to help him out.

I have a similar situation right now with a best friend. He likes this HB9, but I like her too. I stepped aside and let him have the first go. I just said, im giving you the first chance....but if nothing happens then Im going in :)

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 2:52 am 
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Thanks a lot Risen. I meant more at a club/bar with a girl you both don't know.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 3:22 am 
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One of my friend's cousins got with a girl my friend liked. My friend then disowned him. They haven't talked or seen each other in like a year. they used to go out every weekend @@.


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People are sooooo fucking misguided when it comes to "bros before hos."

Stop beating around the fucking bush and TALK IT OUT WITH YOUR FRIEND DIRECTLY. Sit down with your friend and say, "Look, man. I know you like this girl, but she's giving me a lot more IOIs. This is what I want, personally: blah blah blah blah. I respect you as a friend and I want to know exactly how we should handle this situation."


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Thanks a lot Risen. I meant more at a club/bar with a girl you both don't know.
Oh, well in that case, you wouldn't use words like "my friend LIKES this girl." The word "like" isn't generally used in Night Game situations lol

During Night Game (cold approaches), emotional attachment is out of the picture, assuming that both you and your wing (friend) know PUA material.

If you want to switch targets in the middle of the set, you could devise a secret signaling system with your wing beforehand to communicate covertly in field. Just don't ever DLV yourself. That DLVs your wing, too, because it demonstrates that your friend hangs out with losers like you, making him a loser by association lol.

If you just want to help your wing without switching targets, just stick to accomplishment intros and DHVing your wing. Also, help him ISOLATE. That should be the number one thing.


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