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Wonder if you guys could shed some light on what you think may have gone wrong for me here. I want to learn fr these failures so I can become a don haha.
So I'm out on Friday with my mates in a club. We're all fairly drunk and on the dancefloor busting some shapes.
I end up talking to this girl that approached me, she's exactly my type, attractive, quite a strong character, but she was only 22 (im 28). I feel like we were enjoying each other's company, we have some good banter (she tells me her ex has the same first name and he was asshole, so I play on this), and her friends leave her and go outside to smoke and she stays with me as she doesn't smoke.
Anyway, we exchange numbers as she had to leave with her friends. Later that night I text her as I'm leaving the club, turns out she text me an hour earlier asking if I was still in the club, but I didn't receive it as the signal in the club is so poor.
We continue to text for the next 2 days and usually I would build rapport and keep texting until I can tell that the girl is really into me before asking to meet, but I've read so much stuff about using text only to get the date that I thought I would go for it, leave nothing on the table and just ask her out for drinks after 2 days of texting.
That was 48 hours ago and I've heard nothing since. Do you think I scared her off by not building enough rapport?
Just trying to figure this one out. Generally I don't re-initiate contact if a girl stops texting, after all I'm the prize and it's her loss and I feel it looks desperate, but I've read that sometimes re-initiating contact can work out.
Would you guys have text for longer than 2 days before going for the date? Perhaps the second I asked her out I lost value in her eyes and was no longer a challenge?
What do you guys think?
.Never ever text ,especially if you want to have a change ,man,now seriously,text is only for that guy who have not ball to call a girls.
What i do,if today i excenge number with a girls,i continue to do my job,to make me stuff better and,if tomorow i'm not bussy i call her and say "Hy,i'm Robert",notting more,i wait for respond wich probably is" Hy,Hy,Robert,what you do?"
I continue the conversațion and then i say"Tomorow i want to go in central park,do you want to go with me?"
If you have a good atitudine,probably she says"Yes",or"Oh,Tomorow i can't,tell me another Day when you can"
If she say"No" ,then probably is not atracted to you and,deleted her number and continue to do you stuff
Is not important when you call,wich is really important is you attitude,if you call like a children,then probably you are wrong but,if you are in control and call her like a man s,he can observe that and say"Yes"
For eventually bad english..
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