Hi guys quick question. I've noticed a few girls that i've had conversations with in the club and the dance floor disappear with friends but tell me not to go anywhere and they'll be back. Is this a shit test and if so what should i do? Hang around or let them look for me?

I had one girl last week that i was dancing with tell me that she was so wet right now and she was grinding her ass all over me and as we were kissing i told her she was a shit kisser and she wasn't sexual enough so she groped me and sucked my tongue out of my mouth and then said don't go anywhere ill be back lol. So naturally she disappears and doesn't come back this is happening a lot why?

No such thing as shit tests.
Here's a better question. At what point do you think it's time for you to say "Let's get the fuck out of here"?

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Sorry to go a bit off topic. I agree that shit test is a stupid concept, but do you think there actually are test that women will give? I've been asked question from women, in the context where i knew i messed up in confidence and transmitting sexual intent, that sure sounded like tests. Like "do you fight for what you want?" "what do you want from me?". Not shit tests, but clear questions with clear correct answers and clear reasons behind, if that makes sense.

As far as i can tell shit tests are a way for a girls asking, not asking, TELLING you to man up.

Here's a better question. At what point do you think it's time for you to say "Let's get the fuck out of here"?[/quote]

So you're saying i drag it on too much and bore them when i just should know when to close?

I'm not saying you "bore" them. I'm saying you're in a club. It's a highly dynamic environment, and people are generally infused with alcohol and live in the moment. Dragging it out for too long breaks that immersion. She told you she was wet, so she made it pretty obvious that it was time to close.
No, I don't think a woman will ever give you a test. Those questions are more or less protests when you're pussy-footing around. In other words, she's telling you to put some bite behind your bark. But that's because she already wants you to, and not as a means to determine if she does.
Then why call them shit tests? If a woman tells you to wrap your hand around her throat and slam her against the wall, is it a shit test? or is she expressing a desire?

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You are right. I had to learn it the hard way recently. Like i've said, i don't call them shit tests, more like "last chance" tests; and a last chance is given to someone you already want to pass.

Because she just doesn't think that highly of you and doesn't care of she'll see you again.

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Why would you tell a girl she's a shitty kisser and not sexual enough for you after she tells you her pussy is wet? Jesus dude. Lay off all the pick up shit. What were you doing? Trying to "neg" her?

Her: you're making my pussy so wet
You: feel how hard you're making my cock right now.

She told me she was wet long after i said she was a shitty kisser. Probably should have mentioned that so there was no confusion.

You need a bit more common sense if you're expecting club girls to maintain their honour, word or integrity. They're club girls. If they say 'wait here' tell them you're going to get a drink and you'll see them around.