Skinny 2.0

If you accept something you dont write letters. You move on.

You're looking for any reason to hold onto the attachment. As I've said before, seeking resolution is for people who are trying to hold onto to that last bit of attachment. You're delusional if you believe otherwise, and you might as well get a job with Trump's PR team.

What the hell is this?

Honestly, have you read a single post by any of the experts on this forum?

There is no reason to have meta-discussions like this with a woman whom you're not exclusive with, EVER. And if you are exclusive, keep it very limited. It comes off as mopey, and emotionally-uncentered.



Hahahaha

Dude, I can't help but laugh at this. SHE is acting like the man, and you the emotional woman. Did you really take in her question at all?

Why so dramatic



Read her words. She is trying to help you. She likes you, but is repelled by your constant need for Debbie Downer talks.

Basically, shut the fuck up. Stop texting so much, stop the meta-analyitical relationship talk and just have fun.

Of course she did! It's because you're acting like a neurotic bitch.

This woman has the patience of a saint.

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That's not a good thing.

Uh....so have sex with her? What's the problem?

Who cares? Just have fun if you're attracted to her.
Alright, she wants to fuck. Fun.

What's the problem?

What in the hell is this? This girl just wants to come over for sex and you're talking like a girl on a soap opera.

ACT LIKE A MAN.


Translation:

"Shut the fuck up with the Debbie Downer talks, I just want to have fun!"


hahhaha


Dude, you are so completely lost. Do you know how you "teach a girl a lesson?"

You cum on her face.

You employ the five basic principles, making it impossible for women to walk away from you.

You "reverse the situation" by behaving like a dominant male, by being awesome in bed and emotionally-centered.

There is nothing at all you can do on the periphery of this (text, letters, snap) to "convince" her or change the power balance.


Why in the hell would you block a woman whom you're attraced to that seems t owant to hang out in person? how is that "alpha"? That's just plain stupid.

Look, man. It seems your insane reactions to her are a combination of generalized anxiety and one-itis, which is creating a "Stupid Stew" in your mind.

Hot women are going to have orbiters. Hot women are going to have ex's. Hot women are going to play the field until they find the most dominant, fun man. This includes stringing men along, playing games, etc. This is a COLD HARD REALITY of 9's and 10's in their 20's.

You need to let go and understand the full context. You are not exclusive. You are not in a relationship. Yo uare still in that period where she is looking for the dominant man.

So, if you are attracted to her, arrange a meet up, and dominate her in bed. Smile. Laugh. Have fun.

Then repeat this over and over until you are either sick o her or she brings up exclusivity.

Until then, shut up about a non-existent relationship, and laughably pathetic texts like "do you miss us>" or "have I lost you?".

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Hey arch the Op isn't in the same city as his obsession. No idea why that's a secret but they aren't in the same country but he hasn't told her that or something

Ah, okay.

Weird.

Why doesn't the OP just do this, then?

Her: I need to come over and see you now.
Him: I'm out of the country, but let's get naked when I get back.

*puts phone down*

Why is this is so hard?

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Because if she knows I am gone, she will fuck other dudes and move on. If she thinks I am there, I can at least play hard to get by not answering and being distant.

Wow...skinny I mean this sincerely and not to be offensive to you...but you are the dumbest person I've ever seen post here. Like you have to be trolling. The way you think is like a 5 year old and this has got to be trolling otherwise I can't believe there is someone who is this dumb functioning in school. I really can't imagine meeting someone who would think as you do. Come on just admit it...this is a joke. This is beyond neediness it's like you were born a week ago. Just come clean man...u got us

Man,

I come off in a fucked up way I guess over messaging. I know. If you spoke to me right now on SPAM, you would see that. I'm a normal guy, lots going for me, I just get so wrapped in. Maybe it's because I have been so so entitled my whole life, I got everything I wanted and that's fucking awful to say. Beyond that, I was always the star, star in high school soccer, captain, scholarship in college, captain in soccer in college, then scholarship for masters, fucking all the girls, MBA with business honors, meet this babe of a model, and because I graduate with my masters, my eligibility for the NCAA and soccer is over... the highest level of soccer I will ever play, it's all done, I feel sick and shit. Banging college babes, is done... getting pussy in class, is done. I don't know where I want to work, what I want to do, where I want to be. It's all a fucking joke and now I am a joke. The last three months, the only positives to my days, were fucking the shit out of her, and now, shes looking to fuck another guy. And it makes me sick.

Now, I am going home to Europe, to get therapy, to use more of my parents money, who have always been there for me, and I feel awful deep down because of it, I am, seriously, a living joke. If you saw me 4 months ago, you would think, Skinny, you're doing fucking well, you're banging in goals in the last round of the NCAA 16, you got all conference, your banging the hottest girl in a college campus who is in magazines, you're getting A's in all your classes? What a fucking legend. This isn't a brag fest, I swear. I am in the airport lounge, writing this. I have literally nothing going for me now.

No hot girl to bang, college and masters done, no job prospects, soccer.. done, highest level I will play, done... I feel a whole in my stomach all the time, where I feel weak and a tight knot, all i want to do is sleep, I feel most comfortable when the lights are off and I am in my room, and no one talks to me, no one bothers me. To make sure I sleep, I lately take a sip of NyQuil to pass out, and I wake up, and I take an anti-depressant, and I feel the same, every single day now.

Numb. Because I believe the best part of my life is over, and I truly believe that she is by far the hottest girl I could get and have got. And at one points, she really, really liked me and was all about me, and I drove her away, and I want her back. Maybe for ego sake, for something, but I just want her to want me.

Are you purposefully trying to disrespect the posters here, or be obtuse?

Did you not just read what I wrote?

You can expect all 9's and 10's and even some 8's to PLAY THE FIELD. They do this until they find a dominant male. You have not acted like a dominant male, so she has not brought up exclusivity to you.

All sexually worthwhile, hot women will have several orbiters, some they are banging, some they are stringing along, some they are only kissing, etc. They keep all these UNTIL they find a dominant male. This is not "bad" behavior. It is not "slutty" behavior. It's just fucking science. And it doesn't mean a woman will move on.

ACCEPT THE REALITY that this will always be.

If you're fragile little puritanical ego can't handle the reality of attraction and science, then date obese 4's and 5's or nuns.

All you can control is YOURSELF, and right now you're acting like an emotional ninny.

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Wah.

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Not trying to disresepect you mate, not at all. Sorry it comes off that way.

No worries, man.

It just doesn't feel like you're reading the advice.

The reality is, you're in a good place right now. You're young, fit, graduated college, and have the world at your feet. You may need xanax or something, but so what? Anxiety is common as hell.

There are way, way worse positions than what you have right now.

You can start becoming the dominant male right now. You can stop fearing outcomes, and be comfortable in your own skin. Text your one-itis this:

You: "Hey, I'm out of the country right now. But when I get back, I want to rip your pants down and bend you over the bed".

Your evolution starts today.

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He doesn't have the balls.

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You weren't ever doing well. Smoke and mirrors.
Same skinny, different day.

You gave up on yourself ages ago. Enough with the pity party, you won't get it here.